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I am wondering if my teacher has a crush on ...

Hi! I'm Diane and I'm 17 years old. Three years ago I met a PE teacher and since then we became very close friends. She is not my teacher now but I think I have feelings for her. We always talk on the phone or get to see each other twice a month. She's going through a lot so when we're together she always tells me that I'm the one who gives her strength and hope to go on. The thing is that I've caught her many times staring at me in school (we're still in the same school) and she usually tells me things like ''I've been thinking about you''. The question is: Does this mean she has feelings for me too or she has a crush on me? (I forgot to tell you that she doesn't get on with her husband very well -I don't know if this helps-) I'd really appreciate your help. Thanks for reading!


I am starting to have feelings for my lesbian friend…

I have a close lesbian friend. I used to see her as a friend until somewhat recently. After spending 2 days out and about I slowly started to feel differently about her. I figured this was most likely due to me being out and about, change of scenery, or something like that. I will say that has been the most fun I've had in a long time. I thought this would go away but it's only gotten stronger over time really. I've talked to a close friend of mine and he had no advise really. I tend to overthink things a lot so I am at wits end as to what I should do. I don't want to say something and ruin what we have now. Even if I get "friend zoned" I think that would be better than doing something stupid and ruining the friendship we have. Also a note about me, I am generally very shy quiet around people I don't know. I tend to think too much and can get stressed easily. This situation is giving me headaches..


I don’t know if this guy is attracted to me ...

Dear Experts, I really like this site. It's great. I really need your advice. There this guy in my school and I really think he's cute. I always see him in the school but he never noticed me until a few days ago. There some clues he might can be attracted by from me? 1. I was in my gym classroom and he was waiting his friend and he stared at me two times. 2. I was in the hallway and he stared at me like he was embarrassed by from me. 3. I was in my classroom and he was waiting his friend he stared at me like he was amazed by from me. 4. Four days ago, I was in my classroom again and he stared at me a lot of times. What this means? Does he's attracted by from me or something else? Thank you so much!



Should I have sex with my friend? He doesn’t want ...

I have a friend I've know for over 10 years and there's always been a strong attraction there and still is on both of our parts. Only he says he doesn't want a relationship but he wants to make love to me. I told him he doesn't love me to say – “make love”. He never denied it or agreed. Should I have sex with him?


What is the cause of homosexuality?

I was just interested to know "what is the reason that there are gay people, and it seems to be getting seemingly more common in the population." I am a gay guy myself and I have always wondered that question. For something so common these days it is weird not to have any truthful matter to the fact of what brings one to be a homosexual. Thanks.


I just feel I am more comfortable in the opposite ...

Hi, this is kinda embarrassing for me to say, but I just wanted to pose a question. Ever since I was little I was a tomboy. I was roughty and I liked to have fun. But now I'm 13 and things have changed a little. I just feel like I am more comfortable in the opposite gender. One Halloween my friends dared me to be a guy and I did. I wore a wig and it was really believable. I was hanging with some guys and they thought I was a guy too. They played rough with me, but they were careful because I'm really thin. I just felt like I belonged and I was more comfortable with the opposite gender. Also, I definitely DO NOT like girls, I like guys. I'm afraid to talk to my mom, so what's going on with me? Is there something wrong with me?



I always look at girls’ bodies – am I a ...

Ok, so there have been many questions asked based on questioning sexuality, but I want to ask that question based on what I feel. So, I think I may be a lesbian because in school, I always stare at girls' butts, and sometimes look at there boobs when I'm talking to them. I am attracted to girls more then guys, and like seeing two girls kissing. I also have dreams about me being with my best girlfriends. I have had one relationship, and it was with a guy. I didn't really like him that much, and when we made out I thought about other things, and didn't like kissing him. I can picture myself with other girls, kinda, and like movies about queer love. Please give me advice.


I’m in love with my best friend who is a ...

I just graduated from college and told my best male straight friend that I have fallen madly in love with him the day before we received our diplomas. I have been in denial over these feelings for over a year now, as I wasn't even able to tell myself for the longest time. I have always been attracted to girls; though have never had a sexual experience with them or anyone else for that matter. I have fantasized about girls many times, but have never had a passion for anyone like I have for my best male friend. I deeply love him, but he isn't that way even though amazingly he still wants me as his close friend. What do I do? Am I definitely bisexual? And also, how do I cope with the heartbreaking feelings of knowing that I can't be with him in this way? This is extremely difficult and I honestly don't know what to do. My career is also in the public eye, so I need to be careful about whom I talk sexually based things to.


When my finger was in her vagina, it became wet. ...

When I was hanging out with my girlfriend we were makeing out. I asked her if I could finger her and she said yes so i unbuttoned her pants and started fingering her. I kept going and moved down farther and it was wet I'm just wondering but did she cum or pee or something.



I want to find my lesbian friend a girlfriend

One of my best friends is a lesbian but she is very lonely and always having platonic romances with impossible (straight) people!! I really want to find her a girlfriend, cause I think she is not confident enough (she is a bit overweight). She is a lovely funny warm intelligent person. How can I help her? I do not want to upset her, but I think somebody (and it won't be her) needs to do something Thanks!