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My girlfriend thinks I’m too clingy

I'm in the beginning of a relationship with a girl that I really like but I just got a tip from one of her friends that she feels I'm too clingy (which is also the reason my last real relationship ended). I feel my big problem with girls is that if I like them I get too clingy. How do I become less clingy towards a girl and can you please give me some examples to work from because everything I'm reading on the subject doesn't help me unless they tell me different examples and dilemmas. Thanks for the help.



I sometimes think I act in a weird way – ...

I'm bi and it's good. But sometimes I think I'm gay. That's all in my head and it's not true because when I see a girl I automatically think I like them. Then, I get confused. What the heck! I act differently when guys say: "that girl looks good", I just say: "yeah" to go along with it. It's weird.



I work with a girl that I like. What should ...

I work with this girl, whose name I can't say. Over the couple of months that I have worked with her I have started to develop feelings for her. Sometimes we flirt and play around but I have not told her I like her. I would like to tell her but I just can't bring myself to actually make the words come out of my mouth and that is not the only problem - she has a boyfriend. Although I know that she knows I like her as more than a friend by the way I treat her and talk to her, I can never say it and find out whether she likes me too. What do I do?


Am I bisexual or bi-curious ? And how could I ...

am extremely confused right now. For a long time, I had lots of crushes on guys, and even one the beginnings of dating one guy. I was SURE I was 100% heterosexual, but now I'm not so positive. There is a girl in one of my college courses that I have developed feelings for. Not only that, but I have also begun to think of OTHER girls as attractive. Am I Bisexual? Bi-curious? I'm fairly certain I could be able to "come out" to my family if so, but I don't want to tell them I'm something I'm not! If I am Bisexual or Bi-curious, the person I'd love to tell is my roommate, but she believes Gays, Lesbians, and Bisexuals are posessed by demons. I have read several of your other answers to other questions, and it seems you know a lot about these issues. Do you know of any solution to my problems, both with my roommate and my (for lack of a better word) crush? Please help!!!