I understand from your letter that you have the information from a third party that the girl you are dating right now feels you are too clingy… I strongly suggest that you try asking her directly what she thinks about this – if this is true and if you could do to overcome this obstacle together.
Being with someone requires you to communicate directly with the person and not assume what other people tell you about what the person is currently thinking. Then when you clarify the situation, you can address the issues and find solutions together.
I cannot tell you what being clingy is as my perception might be different from that of other people – from yours or from your girlfriend’s. I hope this helps you out. If you need more help, don’t forget you can always see your school’s social worker and discuss the matter.
Inge Rollin, Sexologue B.A