Dee Gamme


About Dee Gamme

Dee holds a baccalaureate in Fine Arts in Cinema (Specialization in Film Animation). She's also an event producer/promoter in the Queer community, mainly working with independent musicians and visual artists. Dee was a volunteer in the "Tell the experts" team for 2 years before being given the opportunity to become Outreach Director. Heading the Anglophone Team since early 2009 has been a great experience!

I like being involved at AlterHeros because it helps keep me in touch with the Queer community. I also love to help others and I am interested in psychology and coming out issues.




My Christian friend is against homosexuality. I think I’m in ...

Let me first say that I'm still unsure about my sexuality, which makes this even more confusing to me. My best friend is a girl, Christian, who's made it clear that she doesn't agree with homosexuality. But she's so beautiful and amazing, I fantasize about her and love to put my arm around her and hug her, I just wish she knew sometimes how much I mean it when I tell her I love her. I've known her for four years now, and we've gotten very close. She even thinks of me as a sister. I know that she'd never date me or anything, although I wish I could just have one day with her, but should I tell her how I feel? I'm scared that since she doesn't agree with homosexuality she'd get scared and I really don't want to lose her as the close friend she's become.



I’m not sure if I’m bi anymore, and I wish ...

Lately I have been very confused about my sexuality and gender identity. I have identified as Bisexual for the past two years, but I don't really have much interest in sex. I feel especially uncomfortable in sexual situations with men, and whenever I have sexual fantasies they're about women. I have only dated men in the past, and liked those relationships but never had sex with them. I do develop crushes on men, often on gay men. This makes me wish I were a man, or at least sort of androgynous. These feelings have led me to question my gender identity. I am female and dress in a very feminine way, but I feel like this might be more of a reflection of societal expectations than what I actually want. Sometimes I really want to wear men's clothes and wish I could just wear either without it seeming strange. Sorry if this question is incoherent, I just have a lot of questions jumbled around in my head right now.





I am a lesbian in love with a guy… is ...

okay so I identify as a lesbian but im in love with a guy... hes the only guy i have ever loved .... and i do not identify as a bisexual.... other than this guy I find all other men disgusting and always have.... is it possible to be a lesbian that has fallen in love with a guy or am i bisexual?


I am scared of the reaction of my parents when ...

Well I am only 13, but I am bisexual. I have done stuff with bith, girls and guys. I told my dad beofre that I was bisexual, and he just said that I was going though a stage. I know I wasn't but I want to tell him again, and I want to tell my mom. I dont live with my mom, and it's harder to tell her stuff than to tell my dad. My dad is more understanding than my mom. I'm just scared of what they will say and I dont know how to tell them. Also I have a girlfriend. please help me. Thanks, JessMarie


My brother came out as a transgender, and his situation ...

My brother recently found out he is transgender and came out to my family a while ago. Ever since he did, his situation sounds similar to mine, though I have never cross-dressed like he has. I really wish i was a girl, and I masturbate at the thought of myself becoming a girl. Sometimes as a girl with another man. I don't know how to be a guy, and almost have to "study" my friends to see how I'm supposed to act. I feel like I'm stealing everyone else's personalities and building my own. I try to make bets with friends of mine where if I lose I have to dress like a girl, and I loved it when some girls I know painted my nails. Even when I was little I wanted long hair but couldn't. I have been accepted by everyone, dating very cute girls, but was only turned on when I imagined myself as them. At night I can only ask myself one question - who am I? Am I transgendered or just have a different situation than some people?