Rimma Orenman



Is she slowly stealing my boyfriend’s attention from me?

So I've been been with my boyfriend for almost a year but I noticed that he started hanging out with a group of girls. One of the girls is one he used to like. At first I asked him what was up but he said nothing. After awhile i noticed that he hung out with a different girl in particular, if we are in class and he walks in, the first person he goes to is her.....then me. There was even a point where I wouldn't be able to find him and when I did, he'd be with them. I've tried not thinking anything about it but he just makes me wonder. I also think that the feelings are mutual because she always looks for him and today I was talking to a friend and I mentioned his name, she turned her head so fast, I could have sworn she got whiplash. I don't want to take his friends away from him but at the same time I want to know what the hell is up.


I have a crush on my coworker but she wants ...

I have a crush on my coworker but I found out from her that she likes her ex's best friend and he likes her back and that she's going through some problems with her ex about this. When I confessed my feelings to her, she said that she was really sorry and didn't know what to say. She also told me that she doesn't know me long enough to say whether I'm her type or not and that I was a really cool and understanding person. Then she asked me if we could be good friends or not. When I told her that we'll see, she goes ' You cant be friends with someone you like?'. I told her that I'll be around if she wants to talk or take things off her mind. Now the thing is, my friend told me if she only talks about herself for the next few weeks or doesn't ask me to hang out then I should ditch her because it'll be clear that she's using me. I agree with him but I would also like your opinion on this as well. Is she trying to make use of me or is she trying to scrape out who I really am?



I am not in the mood for sex since my ...

Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years now. We are both 21 years old. I had my daughter almost 3 and 1/2 years ago. Our sex life was great before that, then my boyfriend had sex with another girl behind my back over several months. I know he is truly sorry for what he has done. It is painful for me to have intercourse and it seems like I am never in the mood. The affair took place 3 years ago. we are finding it very hard to get back on track with this problem. I never feel in the mood for sex and seem to carry on without it fine. However I know at 21 I should not feel this way. I just wondered if you had any advice for me. Many thanks.


I have had irregular periods for a year

I have been having trouble with my periods for the last year - I am 34 and seem to be showing some signs of menopause - this month I had a particularly bad period which I thought had finished on saturday and had no flow for about 24 hrs and then a small flood of hot translucent brown liquid which carried on for a few hours and then nothing again. It happened again today to a lesser degree. I had some blood tests done about 6 months ago and the doctor said all was normal - no infection - no hormone drop - can anyone give me any insight into this - it is unlikely to be an std - I have not been active for about a year!


I have a straight friend who is now questioning her ...

I am attracted to females and always have been. I met this girl who is straight and we became friends but she did not know I was attracted to females. We stopped talking for a year because I told her I was attracted to her. Now a year passed by and she came back telling me she may be attracted to me but doesn't know. That she wants to see where things may go. Any clue why will a straight person do this? I'm confused!





Is the light bleed I had a month ago an ...

First thanks for the quick response. However, the reason I posted my question is because I did read the other posts and none really answered what I needed to know. So what I'll do is try to reword my request..... Is it possible that implantation bleeding not be just a light pink ....... Beginning of June I had what I thought was a period but only 2 days-not even a full two days. The blood was darker than normal but still accompanied by some brighter blood. Am I safe to say this was my period? When it did stop it was sudden and then nothing not even spotting since then.... Hopefully this clarifies what I am asking for. Thanks Lena b



My sperm is sometimes transparent; does this mean I am ...

I have noticed that my sperm is sometimes clear, almost transparent. I have been on risperidone consta injection for 6 months: is this to be expected with this medication? My partner and I are trying to have a baby; does the colour of my sperm indicate that I am infertile?