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Does my teacher like me? I have a crush on ...

Hi, I'm a girl and I have this huge crush on my ELA teacher, who is also female. I find everything about her adorable and might be obsessed with her. She told my mom in parent-teacher conference- "I love her!" "shes my little helper." She also talks to me a lot and tells me I don't smile enough and puts this big smile on to get me to smile and laughs (god i love her laugh) when I do. I had a 99.3 average in her class and when it went down to a b-, she wrote me a little note and put it on my desk during class saying something about how she doesn't like seeing that and she noticed my math grade is similar and "we need to fix this!" and when she walked over and talked to me about it she told me I was very smart and could do better and so on. another thing, she always smiles at me and looks at me in class and she also asks whats wrong if I look sad and offers to let me leave for a bit or take a walk/drink. Does she feel attracted to me? Does she like me? Please help. Thank you. :)


My friend seems to really like me but she says ...

Ive always liked guys until this one girl. At first we were friends but I like her so much. At first I didn’t think anything of it, but I couldnt stop thinking about her. I ended up telling her my feelings and she was fine with it. We would text every night and mad flirt; but then our friends found out and she completely turned on me saying shes not gay and she was kidding the whole time. She did eventually apologize for that, but it still hurt. Weve gone back to normal of texting every day and night, but it bugs me. She gets jealous when I talk about the guy I like because she’s scared I won’t like her anymore, and says things like Im like a drug, she cant go a day without talking me, shes scared of losing me and stuff like that. She even said, “It’s weird, when I get a text from you I get excited”. And how it bugs her that she cant give me what a guy can. Its little things she says like oh we should go skating and I won’t let you fall by holding your hand that gets me. Im confused...



I want to see my friend more frequently, but he ...

Hi, I need help: I want to meet up with my best friend more frequently, but he lives a 3 hour train journey away from me. He has a busy life, he works 5 days a week and works on the weekends but he is able to take days off. I only do a 3 day a week college course during the week so I have a lot of spare time and whenever I ask if we can meet up sometime he'll put it off and say he's always busy. We talk every day texting and instant messaging each other but I just want to spend more time with him. Does he not want to pursue this friendship? He means the world to me and he sometimes says that to me as well but I wonder if you have any wise words that would help me. I am desperate to meet up with him more frequently. I know he is not very comfortable travelling on his own, but even when I offer to go and see him, he won't let me. What should I do?


I am androgynous and pansexual, but how do I communicate ...

Not to long ago I discovered that I was androgynous which was honestly the happiest day of my life. I've never felt so good to understand who I am. I'm also pansexual. But not a lot of people are familiar with these terms. A lot of people seem to blindly say things against who I am. I don't blame them for not knowing about androygnous but I do still hurt when they use words like daugther or girls or boys. I mean why must I choose a side? I just don't know how to get people to understand exactly what I mean. It's so hard to explain to them why I'm androygnous. I mean I didn't choose to be it I just chose to accept it and now I must try and and live with it and get by with all these questions like "please check male or female for your gender" I mean what do I pick? I'm reminded every time I sign up for something or even when I'm shopping in both "men" and "women" sides of the store. I don't know what to do anymore? How do I make this huge part of me known?!


I don’t want to be considered a boy or a ...

I would not like to be considered a boy or a girl. I am not sexually attracted to just boys or just girls, in fact neither. I feel as though physical attraction can turn me on and I do enjoy "sex" (or in my case masturbation). However I feel confused as to what this exactly means. I don't feel as though I should be judged upon my sex. I feel comfort in feeling as though I fit into a group but right now I'm more or less just outside any group circles. I've searched for a word to describe me to others, instead of having to say this every time. So what exactly am I? I've never been sexually attracted to male or female parts. Because I am still a virgin, people think this is just a phase or I haven't experienced life enough to know but I know this is who I am, its just all so confusing! I just wish I could scream out at the top of my lungs exactly who I am, but what am I?



I am attracted to the same sex, but live in ...

Since childhood I have been attracted to the same sex. I was raised in a very conservative religious environment, and such things are not even mentioned in my family. I accepted that I was odd or different and in my 20's married. I have now been married 20 years and can't seem to fight any longer my urges for another man. I don't want to lose my wife and everything and every friend I have, and I would if this attraction were in the open. What should I do?


I am worried about being addicted to online porn

Before I say why the last five months have been so interesting, I will try and catch you up. All my life, I have been attracted to women. I can remember my childhood crushes, the girls I used to date, and the first time I snuck a peek at Playboy. Shannon Tweed, Heather Kozar...ahh such beautiful women! I grew up well, had wonderful girlfriends, all of my sexual fantasies and urges involved women, girls in class got me off, I loved the way they looked and felt, one girl in which I fell in love with for the better part of two years. I was a very happy man. In addition to this, I had a couple addictive/compulsive/obsessive things to my life and what I see now as the most troubling was an internet porn addiction. I looked at it every day since the age of 16. I loved it though and thought nothing was wrong. I gradually moved on to more hardcore stuff. What should I do now? Is there a way to get rid of this addiction, or is this just normal and I should not worry about it?


I enjoy seeing girls having sex, but I don’t want ...

I am a straight girl. I always want to look at pornography on the Internet. I know I shouldn't, but I can't help it. I look at a girl and a guy have sex, but I watch more videos of girls having sex with other girl. I know I am straight, but I need someone to tell me if I am straight. I can't be gay/lesbian/bi and be a Pentecostal (that's my religion). I need someone to tell me I am straight and I am doing my best to stop looking at pornography. I love the Lord and He will help me understand. I would never kiss or have sex with another girl, but I enjoy seeing other girls have sex. I don't like that feeling at all! What should I do?



Is my boyfriend still in love with me?

I have an egyptian boyfriend and love him so much and I felt that he loved me too before he went on vacation. Since he came back from his vacation I feel he is different. He is not the same as before. He has obviously changed. Many times I attempted to ask him what is going on, but he has told me nothing as of yet. I caught him lying, e.g. he asked me to use my PC because he wanted to chat with his mother & sisters late at night, but when I woke up I saw somebody, a lady, stripping on web cam. And I heard him whispering on the phone, saying I MISS YOU A LOT; he also said I LOVE YOU, and that hurt me so much. When I asked him about it, he just told me he was joking. I also think this woman is his neighbour. On the other hand, he told me he doesn't love this girl, and that he loves me very much. But now I don't know if he is telling me the truth, because every time I ask him about her, he gets angry and asks me why I don't believe him. My question is: is he still in love with me, or did he totally change?