Evelyn Kuang


I’ve come out to two of my friends. It has ...

Hi, I've just recently accepted the fact that I'm gay and I've even come out to two of my friends... That was really tough for me and now I don't know what to do about everyone else. One of my parents wouldn't care, and neither would my sister, but I'm really worried about my step-dad and mom. He always makes snide jokes about gay people and my mom always laughs right along with him. He has even made comments like "I don't know what I'd do if you or your sister turned out to be gay..." among many other things... I really don't know what to do, I don't want to disappoint my parents and I don't want for them to feel like I'm a different person because of it I'm not currently seeing anyone and I have never had a girl friend, I know this is something they will try to use against me if I tell them. Should I wait until I meet someone to tell them? I just know in my heart this is who I am and there is no point in denying it anymore .... I just need some help.... Thanks, Stressed


Is it unusual to start being attracted by same-sex in ...

I\'m a 35 year old man who has recently discovered that I\'m bisexual. Before this, I thought of myself as hetero: totally into women, not into men. However, as I\'m continuing my spiritual and self-discovery journey, I find I am attracted to men, when I never have been before. Are there other people who have discovered they\'re bisexual in their mid 30\'s? Is this an unusual time to be making this discovery?


I’m confused by my dreams and if they mean that ...

I am 19 year old female, and I am really confused about my sexual orientation. I do not feel attracted to neither boys nor girls, but I am fine when I see two women involved in a sex relationship. When I think about men I do not feel like beign touched by them. All this things really uptset me, because I think that it is not supossed to be like that. Since I am 15 years old I have dreams having sex with boys and girls, but I can not see their faces; and I do not like these dreams because I do not want to dream like that, and most of the time I am scared to fall slept because of it. I do not know if all these dreams and the way a feel makes me a lesbian or bi. I would like to say, that I have never been involved in a relationship with any gender. I hope you can help me understand what is going on. Do I need a therapist ? if yes, please tell me where to call to. Thank you so much







I want to tell my friend how I feel about ...

Hi, I'm Sarah, Im 15 Years Old And Bisexual. I Want To Tell My Friend How I Feel about Her But I am Scared That She'll Make A Joke Out Of It And Tell Everyone. I've Tried Just Sitting And Talking To Her But Whenever I'm about To Say It I Freak Out And Change The Subject. Please Help Me Tell Her.


I came out as bisexual to my parents last summer ...

Hello. I came out as bisexual to my parents last summer and am still having trouble with it. My mom (who is very conservative) actually said: "I still love you as my daughter, but I don't accept this" when I recently asked her about it. She also keeps threatening to tell my sister and if she does I'll be in for some REAL abuse, because my sister's very homophobic and believes most stereotypes about GLBT people, no matter what I say to try and teach her. I asked my dad for help since he's pretty accepting of my sexuality, but he hasn't been too successful. Any ideas?


I am straight, but I have feelings for a girl

A lot of the guys at my work always flirt with me and ask me for my number and want to hangout, but I'm never interested in them because I am too busy focusing on this girl at work that might be bisexual. I'm straight and I never felt like this towards a girl until I met her. All I do is daydream about her. We talk a lot at work. A lot of people think she is bisexual and she is always making eye contact with me from across the room and turning away with a smile if I catch her, and I do the same thing. She also touches me from behind and makes me super nervous... But she has been talking about her ex for a while who is a guy so I'm so confused about whether she is bi and what to do... I really want to know if she's into me, but if she's not, that will make both of us very uncomfortable and embarrassed at work, especially because this is the only girl I have ever had feelings like this for... Please help! Thanks.



Can masturbation affect your health?

I always feel like masturbating, as it gives me a lot of pleasure, but sometimes I fight myself to stop masturbating, because I think it will affect my health. I think it will make me weaker and thinner, because I want to do body building, and if I am thin how can I have a muscular body? Is it true that masturbating will affect me in that way?