catherine duguay


I had dreams involving my best friend. Does this mean ...

I met my best friend two years ago... it is as if we are sisters separated at birth. She has been there for me this past summer and really helped me when my parents kicked me out of the house for not paying their bills. Her family took me in and really made me feel like I belonged. I have been having these dreams about the two of us having a sexual encounter and it scares me because I am straight and I have never even thought about something like this before. Now when we are together I can't help but think of these dreams... could I be gay and not know it? We have always been very physical with each other... hugging and back rubs etc., nothing sexual. But now I feel like I am reading into these things too much? I am afraid to tell her about this because I don't want to lose her... What should I do?


Should I tell my ex-boyfriend about my abortion?

My ex and I are in the process of getting back together and I don't know if I should or how to tell him I had an abortion almost 3 months to the date. We broke up around this time last year, and after 4 months of moping round, I "out of the blue" ran into an old acquaintance... I slept with him that night, and a week into January of 08 I found out I was 7 weeks pregnant(my very fist time ever), it was a shock and not to mention HOW DID THIS HAPPEN? JASON AND I WERE SO CARELESS WHEN WE WERE TOGETHER AND WITH THIS GUY I GET PREGNANT? So, I made the choice alone and got the abortion. I cried, and I regret it and at the same time I don't. It was the right choice for me. When I see cute babies, I smile and I can't wait to have my very own, but I want to wait for the right guy.


Am I pregnant, even though I had my period last ...

Hi...I really need your help. I took an emergency contraceptive within 48hrs of having sex with my boyfriend a month ago. We have not slept together since. I had my period after 6 days of taking it. The flow was normal, and I had my habitual cramps as well. However my next period is a few days late now. I keep getting the feeling I will get my period. I have mild cramps but no period yet. Could it be because of the hormones in the pill that my period is late now or could I be pregnant? I did have my period after the last time I took the emergency contraceptive so I am confused and scared. Is it possible to be pregnant if you have had your period? Please help me…



My parents won’t let me date before I turn 15

This is Katie again...the one who asked how come my boyfriend doesn't treat me like his other girlfriends. Your answer helped me a lot. He was my first kiss and the first guy I've held hands with...I really like him a lot...but something has come up... I'm turning 15 in a 2 months. My parents won't allow me to date until I turn 15 and even then we can't go to the movies or anything until a couple months after he has been to my house and hanged out with my parents and family. My sister found out today that I've been dating him for over a month now. She says I have to break up with him until I turn 15 and he is allowed to date other girls in the meantime. I'm crying about it because he is the only guy that I've dated that I've liked this much before. I'm scared that if I tell him this, he will soon move on and find another girl and by the time I do get to date it will be too late. I just don't want to let him go this way.I care about him way too much for this..What can I do? Josh is the only guy I've liked this much


Why does my boyfriend treat me differently than his other ...

My boyfriend is awesome, but he treats me differently than all of his other girlfriends. He held their hands on the day after they have been dating, and it's been over a month and he still hasn't made a move. Does he think it would be awkward or something? I try being patient and he says that he misses me when I'm gone and puts his arm around my waist sometimes, but it just isn't the same as the way he acted with his other girlfriends. He says that he loves them and holds hands with them, but now that he dates me he doesn't hold my hand or say anything like that. Is there something wrong or is it just me being too extreme? Is he just shy?


Why am I not into having sex with my boyfriend ...

I am 18 years old and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I do love him and find him good looking as well. I sometimes question myself whether I am attracted to him, but this might only be my paranoia. I started liking him back when we met mostly because of his personality rather than looks. I have liked several guys while I was younger but my present boyfriend is the first one I have had an intimate relationship with. Recently intercourse had been painful and I do not always feel like doing it. When he wants it I have a hard time getting aroused. I also noticed myself looking at girls often, but I always thought it is because I am comparing myself to them, or if they are pretty I would look at them. I have been feeling depressed lately because of several reasons and also have had some fights with my boyfriend. Why do I find myself not into having sex, or thinking about him in a sexual way, and is my behavior towards girls normal ?



Under what circumstances would a man get very nervous about ...

Under what circumstances would a man get very nervous about a male friend he has known over 30 years? He said he does not like his friend's behavior. He talked several times about his friend and he told me he was very frustrated that his male friend did not get him a good 40th birthday present. Why is that? He says his friend is being is being a bad friend. Why? I asked him if his friend has a wife, but he ignored the question. Why? I need help. I still love him a lot but I really need to know the truth. What to do and what to ask? He is a very sensitive person and I am afraid he might be upset if I don't phrase the question properly. I would appreciate your opinion on this.


I am deeply attracted to my fiance (both physically and ...

First off, I want to state that my name has been changed due to it's unique-ness. Recently, my fiance (who i've been dating for almost 3 years) convinced me, after a couple drinks, to go to a topless bar. We got there and sat and watched the girls dancing which wasn't so bad. Later, my fiance bought me a lap dance from one of the dancers. I am afraid to admit this, but I think it did something for me. My fiance (who is the type who is turned on by girl-on-girl situations) brought me back the next night also. Both him and a friend of his bought me a lap dance that night, which really did something for me. In the past I have been turned on by lesbian pornography also... I am deeply attracted to my fiance (both physically and emotionally), but I can't stop thinking about one of the girls who danced for me. Am I bisexual or was it just the alcohol? I know labels aren't important, but I am just confused and curious about all this. Any insight would be appreciated!