Hi! I’m a 20 year old heterosexual guy, and I have been in love wih my best friend (who also happens to be a lesbian) for 3 years. She has been my best friend since we were 6 years old, so I have nearly my hole life shared with her. We drifted apart between 14-18 years old, but the moment we reached out to each other we immediately became friends of the “as close as you can get” type. We are both preety smart and talented in life in general, and that mental capability has allowed us to be able to think clearly about our situation from the moment I told her I loved her, despite her sexual orientation. We have an amazing connection, and recently we tried making out for hours to know how we felt, but she started it, not me. She also told me that she thought of having sex with me, but knowing that she can't feel the same way I feel about her. I don't know what to do, because I can separate my romantic feelings from the pure sexual desire pretty well, but it still feels wrong... Help? ;)[:en]Hi! I’m a 20 year old heterosexual guy, and I have been in love wih my best friend (who also happens to be a lesbian) for 3 years. She has been my best friend since we were 6 years old, so I have nearly my hole life shared with her. We drifted apart between 14-18 years old, but the moment we reached out to each other we immediately became friends of the “as close as you can get” type. We are both preety smart and talented in life in general, and that mental capability has allowed us to be able to think clearly about our situation from the moment I told her I loved her, despite her sexual orientation. We have an amazing connection, and recently we tried making out for hours to know how we felt, but she started it, not me. She also told me that she thought of having sex with me, but knowing that she can't feel the same way I feel about her. I don't know what to do, because I can separate my romantic feelings from the pure sexual desire pretty well, but it still feels wrong... Help? ;)
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