Was it right to explain to my kid that me ...

I just came out of the closet a couple of month's back.I have two boy's there seven and six, now the seven year old is the articulate one it's like he's been here before; I recently got into a relationship with my best friend of five year's but for my son's they know her as their aunt. So naturally, I had to explain to him that we are a couple now some people think that I shouldn't have went there but;I figure he is a new aged child he'll pick up if I don't explain to him. Did I do the right thing or was I wrong should I have waited until he was old enough to under stand?

What can I do to accept my sexual orientation ?

While I came out at the age of seventeen (I will soon be 22), I am finding it more and more difficult with every coming year to accept my sexual identity. I feel suffocated by how the word "lesbian" makes me feel and the hurt it has caused my very traditional immigrant family. I have even grown to dislike being near women, leaving me with nothing more than empty sexual attraction and loneliness. I simply have no clue how to pull myself out of this situation.

I am in love with the boyfriend of my best ...

I have a question about love. I am in love with the boyfriend of my best friend. She does not like him very much because she likes someone else but she uses him a second choice. He also likes me.. he has said this to me.. and now he has mixed feelings between me and her. I told him that I could not start a relationship with him because of my best friend. But what should I do now.. He likes me.. I like him and my best friend does nto really like him but stays with him anyway.. what can I do?