sara rahmani


How can my male straight friends be sure I will ...

I'm a male attracted to men,but I'm not attracted to gay men, so I refrain from intimacy with them. As it turns out, I'm attracted to straight guys, and I never ever act on it, but some of my straight, masculine friends have initiated sex with me, as long as I was passive during our "intimacy". Is this odd, and can they sense something in me, even if I don't show my attraction to them? How can they be so absolutely sure that I'll resond willingly to their advances?


I have strong feelings and attractions for the same sex… ...

Ok, so here's the thing: I'm not 100 sure if I"m a lesbian. I've noticed having had strong feelings, and have attracted to the same sex for around 3 years now (I'm 17). However, I keep telling myself that this could be a stage...I don't want it to be real because I would lose my mom..my whole family. Anyway, another reason for my doubt is that I haven't been in a relationship with either sex. I'm pretty sure I am ( think I just don't know how to accept it)...but I need to know for sure...I think I know for sure...but I guess I just need confirmation either way. Also, let's say I am a lesbian...how can I let others know, or should I? I know I sound so silly, but I feel so alone and confused...How do I know if someone else is a lesbian...I'm just lost...so silly I know...but any advice or anything would be greatly appreciated. Thanks