Julie Nguyen


What if he tells my secret if I tell him ...

I'm a boy and I learned last year that I was bisexual, although I am more attracted to guys. I want to ask a certain guy to know whether or not he is homo/bisexual but i can't find a way to ask him. If I do ask him whether or not he is, and learn he is heterosexual, he might make my "little secret" public. I need to find a way to ask him without that happening, so do you have any advice ?


My husband likes my boobs but seems gay

Is my husband gay or bi? My friends have always told me he is gay (including gay friends). When we started dating he never stopped talking about his gay friends. During the relationship he would always tell me how gay men were looking at him at the gym. He flirts with gay men at work and tells me it's only joking. He can spot a gay man a mile away and always looks at him. He knows all the gay sayings etc. He likes anal touching and anal sex with me. But he loves my body (boobs and all). I am so confused, please help. Once he told me he had been gay before we met and then said he was only joking. Do you think he is gay or bi. He said other gay men said he is attractive because he dresses well and looks after his appearance.


My friend has a girlfriend, denies she is a lesbian, ...

Hi my name is Mitchelle , I've been a lesbian since childhood. Now, its got me confused, i had this officemate that is very pretty therefore i made friends to her since i am indeed infatuated to her. Only by knowing that she's a lesbian too, she introduced me to her girlfriend. But she would always deny that she is a lesbian too.She'd always say that she's a girl in front of me as kinda joke. We hang out together at the mall just the two of us. She shows her affection towards me. Or i may just misinterpret it. She may just be charming. And now i fell for her, knowing that she's a lesbian. I know that when you love gender doesn't matter. However its got me confused really since this is the first time i felt this for a lesbian as well. I've had lot of lesbian friends in the past pretty, beautiful , hot lesbians and others. But never gotten in fallen in love with 'em. Knowing that there the same as me. But now i really think I'm lost, falling in love with a lesbian as well. Please help.