Julie Nguyen


My bi friends say I’m not bi because I won’t ...

Well my religion is known for lesbian use or bi-sexual use but i wanna know is im bi? i like kissing girls and i had a girlfriend but i would never have sex with a girl i like watching it on the internet but i would never do it my brother knows im like that but my mom does not aprove of it and my bi friends tell me that if i dont like having sex with girls then im no bi and im a poser i just want some clarity


Where could I meet more bisexuals in Vancouver, B.C.?

i think i'm bi because i'm attracted to both females and males. i was wondering where could i meet more bi's in my area? (vancouver, bc, canada) i'm 14 and i have a crush on my friend and i recently found out she is also bi ,should i ask her out or should i just try to get to know her better? i'm not that close to her btw.


I want to leave Tunisia for a country that allows ...

Dear experts, I'm gay and I live in Tunisia..My problem is my sexuality : I'm gay and it is clear that I don't fit here..People here always think that gays or lesbians are sluts; they treat us like dirt and they hate to get in touch with us..I'm always keeping a low profile but the problem comes from my classmate who's gay too but very effeminate and that puts us in so many troubles..I like him very much as he's my best friend and he stands by my side whenever I feel lonely..I don't wanna give up my friendship with him but many people criticize me and hate me because I walk with him..When I walk in my own, it is hard to say that I'm gay but with him it's very clear.. Does being gay means "I'm a slut" ? Should I reject my best friend coz he's effeminate? Also , I can not find a boyfriend , I've been searching for 4 years now! Should I give up ? I really need a boyfriend to love and get my sexual needs but it is hard here..Please Alterheros help me and advise me . Thank you very much. AND I'm 21 year old from Tunisia and you know that homosexuality is illegal in my country. I feel very sad all the time coz we're treated like dirt and people stare at us like we're viruses. So I've decided I should get way and live somewhere else where homosexuality is legal..I've thought about meeting a man from Europe who can save me from the hell I'm in by marrying him ,from a country like Sweden , Spain, Canada or Holland ..My question is "Will I have troubles getting visa if it is for same sex marriage purpose knowing that homosexuality is forbidden by constitution here ? Will they grant me visa? And what if I'm thinking of Asylum, will they grant me that? Another question, if they grant me visa or asylum, will authorities in my country punish me using laws ? Plz Alterhéros , Help me!



My bi girlfriend flirts with girls, but doesnt’ like when ...

ok I go out with this bi girl and I noticed that she has been flirting with other girls while we're dating. I don't if I should get angry at that or if I should feel threatened by it but I have been angry about it. so wut I did I started to flirt with other girls and she started catching a fits and yelling at me -_- I don't know if I should be angry that she's flirting with other girls or not...


I’m a very confused boi – is it wrong to ...

I'm 15 going on 16, and I'm just, confused about stuff. I thought I had it figured out. I like girls, I'm a girl, so I'm gay. Fantastic. I'm kinda girly but I love being called a guy and dressing masculine. I thought about being male but I want to stay female. I want to identify as female but go by some unisex name that could be either gender. I tell people I'm a boi (not boy) but they don't care. And I go to an all girls private school. Is it wrong to want to be both genders? I don't want to not be a female anymore; I feel that I'm more of the female side than male. But, there's something so appeasing about being a guy. I've even considered staying a girl and getting a surgery for a masculine chest because I don't like my breasts (they're big). I'm just so unsure and I can't seem to find people to relate to. What's wrong with me? And now I may even like guys again? Just what's going on? -Shadow/Jen