Seynabou Thiam

About Seynabou Thiam

Seynabou holds a baccalaureate in Litterature studies, as well as a baccalaureate in political science from Université de Montréal. In summer 2008, she completed an internship at the United Nations Development Programme.

I love to help people a lot, especially with questions dealing with sexuality, relationships, family issues and such… I’ve been told that I have quite an insight in discerning and solving problems, so I want to be able to use this gift and help those around me!

I hate love and dating – they’re boring!

Dear Expert, I have a question. My question is it weird to hate dating and falling in love or being in love? I hate dating and love. I think it's waste of time being in love. I think it is very boring to fall in love. I'm not bisexual. I didn't tell anyone how I feel. But it is weird to hate love or dating?

I’m having violent sexual dreams

I am twenty three and am a virgin but almost every night I have dreams of sex. I was diagnosed with Narcolepsy at the age of 13 and to get rid of the nightmares I started to watch porn. Now I can ignore the dreams of sex and redirect them. But a lot of times I have dreams of two people who were close friends one is of a guy who was like a brother to me tries to rape me and a friend she tries to force me to have sex also (sometimes with the girl it does happen but shes always fisting me). I don't like these dreams and try to ignore them but it happens a lot. Now for some reason I am having forced sex dreams of my dad who has never done anything to me. I also have dreams of guys I use to like in middle school and fight for my attraction but I always choose the same guy.Please help.