About Kate

Kate is currently completing a Psychology degree at the University of Ottawa. She also volunteers at the Pride Centre of the University of Ottawa.

Did I condition myself to like guys? And help for ...

So, I have always questioned my sexuality. When I started "self-pleasuring" myself about 3 yrs. ago I only ever thought about girl. When I realized that this wasn't exactly normal, I started forcing my self to thing about guys. So now, I have dated guys, but I don't really feel an emotional attraction to them (only very little). Sexually speaking, the idea of penetration doesn't bother me, but thinking of a penis doesn't really turn me on. With girls, I am very attracted to them physically. So am I bi?... Did I in a way condition myself to like guys all those years ago?...Or am I a lesbian in denial? Also if there is any advice for a gay teenager whose Christian, that would also be very helpful. Thank you <3 Krisy

I want to cut off my breasts!

I hate my breasts and I don't know what to do about it. I think a lot about cutting them off. I don't like the way shirts look on me because of them. Also I don't like being female and cringe when I hear people refer to me as she or by my first name. I wear baggy clothes and have short hair so strangers frequently assume I'm a boy until I tell them my name. Most people don't understand my problem and make fun of me for dressing/ acting like a boy. This makes things difficult at work. Also I'm gay and worried that girls won't find me attractive anymore if I decide to cut my breasts off. Please help.