Tag: Women


Negative beliefs about men might be ruining my relationship.

I have a lot of negative beliefs of men and relationships in general. My father cheated, my brother in law beat my sister and my mother almost "trained" me to hate men. But I have never doubted my sexual attraction to them. I am straight and know that. I am therapy because I have been sabotaging a relationship with a man who absolutely amazing and understands love better than most women, but all of a sudden all these thoughts keep trying to ruin it with him. All of a sudden after a session of therapy about my negative beliefs of men, this thought keeps causing me anxiety and pain, saying that I'm a lesbian. I don't think I am but it's really bothering me. Especially considering how happy I have been with my current boyfriend. I feel almost afraid of him. I'm still not attracted to women. I notice their beauty but I don't want to actually BE with them. I just have always felt it easier to open up to women than men. I have found a wonderful man and am afraid of ruining it because of...