Tag: tension


Comment garder mon copain près de moi? Il ne veut ...

je me suis disputée avec mon copain; au sujet d'une discussion, je lui ai demande de passer plus de temps ensemble que 1 fois par semaine environ et a refuse car il a beaucoup de travail;(relation de 19 mois) nous avions deja aborde le sujet que si je tombais enceinte je serai prete a le garder, j'ai 43 ans lui 52 et sans enfant) Nous sommes en froid depuis 2 mois , ns nous voyons 1 fois par semaine 5mn pour le travail , je n'arrive pas a debloquer la situation il est assez ferme et n'aime pas parler de relation, que dois je faire selon vous ? le laisser venir ou essayer d'aborder le sujet sachant que j'ai peur qu'il s'eloigne de nouveau si je suis trop en demande Lola


My best friend is gay, but always want to touch ...

I'm a straight female and my best friend is a gay male. We're very close, we spend almost every day together and it hasn't been a problem before but lately I've felt like some sexual tension has entered our relationship. I know he's curious about being with a girl but he's said he would never do anything with a girl he knew because he wouldn't want to hurt her. In the past when he's been drinking he's begged me to kiss him (I didn't) and/or tried to touch me sexually. Once he abruptly french kissed me but I didn't kiss him back. If there is only one bed somewhere we'll sleep together and he always moves closer to me until we're touching. The thing is he's not bisexual he doesn't even believe people can be bisexual. I'm not sure what he's doing but he's really got me confused. He seems to vascillate between wanting to touch me all the time and being repulsed by being remotely near me. Do you have any insight you can offer? I don't want anything to get in the way of our relationship...