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I feel I am stuck in uncertainty, am I transgender ...

I identify enormously with the experiences and feeling of other transgender people. (the feelings being trapped in the wrong body, etc) But I'm unsure if I AM transgender. Are there any questions I can ask myself that would help me understand myself better? (besides 'am I transgender?' and 'Would I feel happier as a male?') (I am female bodied) I am sick of being stuck in uncertainty. Help?


Should I ignore the sick feeling I get when kissing ...

I've identified myself as a lesbian and come out to my sister and mom, but recently I'd been dating this guy who to me is the greatest person ever but I am not sexually attracted to him. We'd been going out for about two years and had never even as much kissed, but lately I felt pressured to be sexual with him because he'd been so patient with me all these years. Last time we went out we kissed and I just felt sick to my stomach because I was not at all into him in that way. Now I don't know what to say or do because I don't want to lose him as a friend. Should I be honest with him and tell him how I feel or try to get past it and work it out somehow?