Tag: sister


How do I approach my sister about liking her best ...

question #1: hi, I'm in love with my sisters best friends little sister (magan), but my sister doesn't know I'm bi. me and my sister are really close and i want her to no how i feel but she hates the idea of gays and bis. what should i do,(my deepest fear is that she'll be grossed out by me and not be as close anymore) if i cant get her to understand, i don't think ill have the nerve to ask magan to go out with me publicly. and question #2: hi, i no u get this a lot but I'm really not sure what to do.. I'm bi and i really like my friend who is also bi (she knows I'm bi). here's the thing we were drinking with her friend and we ended up fooling around, like all three of us, but i want us to be more than just that, tho I'm not sure she wants that. how do i let her no? please help. to make things worse her big sister and mine are best friends and both of them don't no that we are bi, so it would be bad if we ended up going out.. wouldn't it? please help thanks <3


Should I ignore the sick feeling I get when kissing ...

I've identified myself as a lesbian and come out to my sister and mom, but recently I'd been dating this guy who to me is the greatest person ever but I am not sexually attracted to him. We'd been going out for about two years and had never even as much kissed, but lately I felt pressured to be sexual with him because he'd been so patient with me all these years. Last time we went out we kissed and I just felt sick to my stomach because I was not at all into him in that way. Now I don't know what to say or do because I don't want to lose him as a friend. Should I be honest with him and tell him how I feel or try to get past it and work it out somehow?


Negative beliefs about men might be ruining my relationship.

I have a lot of negative beliefs of men and relationships in general. My father cheated, my brother in law beat my sister and my mother almost "trained" me to hate men. But I have never doubted my sexual attraction to them. I am straight and know that. I am therapy because I have been sabotaging a relationship with a man who absolutely amazing and understands love better than most women, but all of a sudden all these thoughts keep trying to ruin it with him. All of a sudden after a session of therapy about my negative beliefs of men, this thought keeps causing me anxiety and pain, saying that I'm a lesbian. I don't think I am but it's really bothering me. Especially considering how happy I have been with my current boyfriend. I feel almost afraid of him. I'm still not attracted to women. I notice their beauty but I don't want to actually BE with them. I just have always felt it easier to open up to women than men. I have found a wonderful man and am afraid of ruining it because of...