Tag: sense


How can I be in a relationship with a man ...

Hello For all of my life, I have always been attracted to males emotionally and romantically, and have never once thought about being with a woman in that way. However since the age of 11, I have found women very sexually attractive, and only found men sexually attractive in a minor way. So I guess you could say that I am sexually attracted to women, but emotionally attracted to men. This situation is confusing me a lot, and I really do not know what I am going to do in the future. How can I be in a relationship with any man if I do not find them sexually attractive? I know that I am not trying to kid myself about being emotionally attracted to men, I really do love them. At the moment a boy and I are having very strong romantic feelings towards each other, however when the subject of sex comes up it gets awkward. I have a very strong connection with this boy, and the thought of not being able to be with him because of this makes me really upset. Any help is appreciated greatly.


MY hormones! AH! I don’t want a label, but where ...

Can you change your sexuality? Lately, I've been really really confused. I'm not sure what to consider the feelings i have. I think I'm bi because I like girls, and have had successful relationships with them, but I also fantasize about men. Sometimes I think more about men than I think about women. Then most recently I got to a point when I was almost convinced I was gay because I would check out one of my attractive male friends and have sexual fantasies about him. At the same time at school, I had a crush on a girl. I know my hormones are ridiculously crazy, but all these feelings have left me at a point in my life where I just want to be straight. I will admit that part of the reason is because i analyze media and straight is the way to go, but if my memory serves me correct, I liked girls since 5th grade and not until 7th grade did I become interested in boys. So finally, Do I just let my hormones do whatever they want? I don't want a label, I just don't want to be confused any more.


Should I break up with my boyfriend ?

Well I went out with my ex again for the 4th or 5th time. And I recently found out that he made out with my friend on New Year's eve. I asked him about it and he sad that he was drunk and he didn't know what he was doing at the time. I had to find all this out from the girl he made out with. When I told him how I felt he said that I was making him feel bad.He didn't care how I felt, and he is always telling other girls how pretty or nice they are. I just don't think that he is happy with me anymore. Also his ex has been trying to get at him for awhile now and I always think in the back of my mind that he still cares for her. I just want to know how I should have reacted too this situation? And if I should break up with my boyfriend?