Tag: risk

Guiding a gay youth while rejecting his sexual advances to ...

I am trying to help guide a young hispanic man (he's) 17 in the right direction to meet and get to know other guys in his age bracket. He's not shy, quite to the contray, but he's exhibiting inappropriate behavior. He showed up at our door begging us for sex. This situation is just wrong for many, many reassons. He seems overblown with hormones, but I'd like to know how he could get free counseling and maybe meet other young men (in a group situation) that he could get to know. He lives near is in the San Fernando valley and tells me that he feels completely cut off. His friends are all straight and as unfortunate as it is, are very homophobic. He's afraid they might try to kill him. We live in the San Fernando valley near North Hollywood. I'd like to give him some advice before he does something drastic or gets us in trouble. I really could use some information for him. (Counseling centers-gay hispanic yourth group meetings). Your immediate help would be appreciated. Thanks

Can I catch the HIV virus by ingesting aerated ejaculate?

My question is about the HIV virus. If someone jerked off into something or onto something and it sat around (say they jerked off into a beer bottle) for a couple of hours or an hour, and someone else unknowingly downs it, are they at risk for HIV? Specifically, I drank something rank from a cup that had a bit of OJ at the bottom of it (as well) and I want to know the HIV risk. I have mouth ulcers (possibly from herpes), so if it's a risk, I'm in trouble for sure. (oh well, I'll deal with it--but could the OJ have actually done the virus in before I got hold of it?) There IS a risk it had HIV as there are a lot of high-risk-takers where I live. I will be tested either way -- just trying to manage the wait. Thanks.

Not like it used to be – how can I ...

I know i can't go back to what used to be with my boyfriend but things have changed and one week he's deeply in love with me and shows me everything and leaves me without any doubts, but there's other weeks where he barely shows anything. I like talking to him and I don't want to come off as desperate to talk to him or anything because I know it won't be a good idea but we've been fighting because i tell him how i feel but not exactly. I dont plan on telling him to prove me his love because I believe him, I just miss some of the old times where he used to care more and such. What should I do?

Is it herpes ?

Hello, I have a couple of questions: 1. Is it possible to have a herpes outbreak about 1 year after i had unprotected sex with another partner? No visible signs of herpes were seen on her plus no other symptoms such as: muscle aches, fever, swolling of the glands, etc.....have occured. I've had like a pimple like bump on my penis and took away the white stuff now its just red but no pain.....should i be worried.

Am I allowed to have sex at my age ?

Am i allowd to have sex at this age? with another 14 year old at least she said shes been wanting it for a while now and i dont know what to tell her.... i feel as if i should because i know about safe sex, stds, and pregnency. my dad says its ok if i wear a condom but i just dont know what to do? any advice?????