Tag: perspective


What if someone wanted to do away with gender ?

While you have answered a question about castration, you did so in a leading manner that implies desire towards femininity. What if an individual did not want to become female, but wished to do away with gender and sexual identity altogether? Would the barriers of understanding by "successful" people make this impossible? I'd rather not have to jury rig a pair of hedge clippers, but I don't think I have any choice. I am a Montrealler, so if you can provide an individual reference, that would help greatly.


I like this girl but she has a boyfriend and ...

Im a girl, i'v known this girl scene the 6th grade she is my friend im in 12th now. i have a big crush on her i like her a lot i have never been with a girl be for i guess u can say im bi-curious. i think about her a lot i think about having sex with her i like looking at her butt we play around like friends do and slap each other on the butt. i did it today and it turnd me on a lil she has a big booty i want to kiss on her boobs and her butt. i realy want to grind on her booty and p**sy. but she has a boyfriend. sometimes i think about telling her that i like her but i dont know how or how she is going to take it. i dont know what to do we r both 17


My friend is a total homophobe, and I don’t know ...

Over this past summer, I developed feelings for one of my best friends. I eventually told her, and she acted like it was no big deal. Then I read something in the newspaper that had something to do with homosexuality, and I told her about it. I found out that she's a total homophobe, but she'll still talk to me and hang out with me. She's really religious, and I'm not. I know that she believes it's "wrong" to be homosexual or bisexual because it says something about it in the Bible. But the thing is, she won't even really listen to what I have to say about it. What do I do? I don't want to lose her as a friend, because aside from this subject, she's the best friend anyone could have. But I've found that it's hard to talk to her without thinking of that, and I'm stuck and have no idea what to do...