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Not looking for a sex change, but want to be ...

i'm a 44year old male but i don't class myself as a male or female however i do wear womens' cloths some times and underwear 24/7 i don't even own a pair of men's pants i'm not looking for a sex change but i am desperate to be castrated as i hate having erections i have no interest in women only men and i'm totally submissive i need to talk to my doctor but here in the UK they seem very unwilling to help how do talk to my doctor about this subject without making myself look a complete lunatic i don't want to go to some seedy bdsm club /s&m party where things can go wrong, please help


I’m a 16-year old Iraqi boy – I want to ...

hi,,I'm 16 years old and I'm gay ,,and my friends never hang out with me ,,bcz they think I'm gay ,,what am i suppose to do,,and i cant tell them that I'm gay ,,bcz I'm in iraq if someones know ,,i will be killed ,,if there is someone can take me out of this place ,,plz help me i am in an emergency ,,im always alone ,please help me , im just 16 i don't want to waste my life by hiding my sexuality i want to be free to say "i am gay " like everyone in europe or u.s.a ,please answer as soon as possible ,,bayar


I am in the UK, she is in the U.S. ...

i am an english woman and in love with the most wonderful woman in CHICAGO, we so much want to spend the rest of our lives together, but have only been together for 6 months. i want to move to her from uk. we are independent women, but your law wont let me in as we are gay, please help us.



MY hormones! AH! I don’t want a label, but where ...

Can you change your sexuality? Lately, I've been really really confused. I'm not sure what to consider the feelings i have. I think I'm bi because I like girls, and have had successful relationships with them, but I also fantasize about men. Sometimes I think more about men than I think about women. Then most recently I got to a point when I was almost convinced I was gay because I would check out one of my attractive male friends and have sexual fantasies about him. At the same time at school, I had a crush on a girl. I know my hormones are ridiculously crazy, but all these feelings have left me at a point in my life where I just want to be straight. I will admit that part of the reason is because i analyze media and straight is the way to go, but if my memory serves me correct, I liked girls since 5th grade and not until 7th grade did I become interested in boys. So finally, Do I just let my hormones do whatever they want? I don't want a label, I just don't want to be confused any more.


I thought I was trans, but now I’m confused about ...

Alright so I'm a transsexual (ftm) but I kind of like to cross dress by wearing women's clothes so that would like...well that's weird I mean I'm basically just gender queer, I like wearing both women's and men's clothes but I don't feel comfortable in the female physical body! I think that makes sense. Anyways so with all that being discovered and finally coming out to myself in October I have a new problem, sexuality. You see I'm not sure if I'm like gay (like guys) or bisexual, pansexual or asexual. I like the look of most guys but I have found girls attractive as well. The thing is what's in their pants (penis/vagina) it doesn't appeal to me...at all. I'm not turned on by it. I'm turned on by the person's appearance, personality or the thought of engaging in sexual activities but I don't like private areas. I'm not even sure if I want a penis construction surgery anymore. I'm not even sure what to call myself as a trans or sexuality wise. Help?


Making friends (or more!) with girls

Hi I just had a question but before I tell you guys I just wanted to say thanks for the advice on what to do to get this girl to noticed me and thanks to Hillary and I just wanted to ask what kind of words should I use to approach nice, not to nice and not to mean, or mean girls so that they will like me as a friend and maybe more than just a friend, maybe a boyfriend, so what kind of words should I use to approach girls and by the way I'm in 7th grade but the year is almost over. I'm almost 13