Tag: mind


Am I bi? I like a girl on Facebook who ...

i know a girl from FB, she's pretty but she's dress-up like a dude... hen i saw her at the first time i can feel my heart beat fast and my face blushing, like: " OMG... She's so cute..." and everyday i always thinking of her.. but, when i know she's already in a relationship, i feel sad very very disappointed, but im only interested with a very tomboy or butch girl, but i still thinking boys are cute.... Am I BI? Why? can someone straight turn into BI after they're boyfriend hurting and dumped them?



Do my dreams mean I am bi?

I'm a 16 year old girl. I've always thought that i was 100% straight but now I'm not so sure. I keep having these dream occasionally about girls. It never goes a lot further than kissing but I'm still really confused. Its usually a girl that I think is really pretty or an upperclassman that I admire in a way. I'm really confused because my last dream was about a girl on my school track team[which is pretty small], and now when i go to practice, i see her and feel weird. I don't know what to say to her and all I can think about is the dream. It is like on a projector in my mind and plays continuously. The team is pretty close though, so its not like i can just avoid her. How should i handle this situation? Do these dreams mean that I'm bi? I'm also kind of scared because if I am i don't know how to deal with it if I somehow am... I don't think my family would really get it and I'd be wicked scared to tell my friends. Help Please! I'm not sure how to deal...



Images of my father haunt me during sex

I have never been molested or raped to my recollection which is a big reason why I feel so lost with my situation. At times during sex I see my father instead of my partner it disgusts me and I cant continue. My father has no way ever touched me in a sexual way so I don't know where these thoughts are coming from. It has become more of a problem in the last year. My dad pops in my head during any type of sexual activity. I don't know what to do or where to go to get help and how to fix this because it is starting to really affect my life. It feels like im getting haunted almost because the thoughts just pop outta no where it disturbs me to a great extent any advice would be greatly welcomed.


I feel I’ve wronged my parents by being gay

I am gay and I feel as if I've seriously wronged my parents. I never had any religious issues surrounding my self acceptance. Though I always felt that I should forget that I am gay, at least for a few years until I am financially independent. My parents are too conservative. They don't even expect me to date a guy before I marry...so, dating a girl and living with her, especially when homosexuality is illegal here and the society so rigidly patriarchal...they would think that its more of a mistake that should be corrected. And, right now I feel so unsure about my own life, both personally and professionally, that it grips me in guilt. I know that my parents have done so much for me, and by being gay, I've already put aside many of their expectations. I work really hard at my academics, but if my score falls below their hopes from me, that makes me feel twice as bad. I want to focus on what's important for me, but I don't know how to get my mind off all this?


Can I trust my feelings regarding my sexual preferences?

Ok, I know I'm a lesbian and I want to come out. But I can't. Not just because I fear rejection but because I'm worried that I'm wrong. I've got this fear that I'll tell my parents I'm gay and then I'll discover I'm straight. I also worry that I chose to be gay. I only got my first crush on a girl recently and only had crushes on boys in primary school. It seems ridiculous to me that I chose it - I have never been sexually attracted to a guy and the way I feel about this girl is unlike anything I have felt before. There are things that indicate I was always this way, such as dumping boys for no reason in primary school and hating kissing or holding hands with boys. And I guess in high school, I realized I never really felt like I was straight. But despite how obvious it is to me that I'm gay, I feel like I could still be wrong. Could this be because of the way I've been brought up/society influences etc? Or maybe I just can't accept it/trust my feelings?




I have problems with my erections,what should I do ?

Hi, I'm 18 and i've recently started a relationship with a new girl friend, approximately 3 months. Up until 3 days ago, i've had erections that were extrememly hard, and would never go down, but three days ago, we decided to move ahead and begin having sex. I was fine until i removed my pants, then as i was about to penetrate, my erection disappeared, and would not return. We've tried the subsequent 2 nights, but to the same result. I am worried. At only age 18, i didn't believe that i would have a problem with ED. I clear my mind each time before we attempt to have sex, but as i said, the same result comes. please help me, I want to satisfy my girlfriend. Thank you, Martin


I am attracted sexually to both sexes, but emotionaly to ...

I HAVE ALWAYS CONSIDERED MYSELF STRAIGHT, BUT NOW I AM NOT SO SURE. I AM ATTRACTED TO GUYS, AND GIRLS. BUT YOU SEE, I WOULD ONLY F*** A GUY AND never GO OUT WITH THEM. BUT, I WOULD F*** A GIRL, AND GO OUT WITH THEM AND DO EVERYTHING THAT A BOYFRIEND AND A GIRLFRIEND DO TOGETHER. I WANT THAT WITH A GIRL, AND never WITH A GUY. AM I GAY?