Tag: mâle



My husband is trans – I feel like he was ...

My husband of 29 years announced today that he wanted to start taking hormones. That he would grow small breasts and his voice would change a bit. That he would have to have his penis removed---as it would shrivel up because of the hormones. First of all---is that true? I am at a loss. I only knew that he liked on ocasion to wear women's shoes---when we got married. It has escalated from there. He has has several affairs---he says only mentally---but I am not certain. I have tried to give him the benefit of the doubt---but I am not comfortable with his recent announcement. I do not wish to live as a lesbian---first of all because I have wishes and desires that will not be met. Also if my job gets wind of this---they will look for anything possible to get rid of me. There has really been no discussion of this---he refuses. He says that it is totally his decision and he does not care what I have to say or think about it. I feel like he was not honest with me from the start...


I’m not sure if I’m bi anymore, and I wish ...

Lately I have been very confused about my sexuality and gender identity. I have identified as Bisexual for the past two years, but I don't really have much interest in sex. I feel especially uncomfortable in sexual situations with men, and whenever I have sexual fantasies they're about women. I have only dated men in the past, and liked those relationships but never had sex with them. I do develop crushes on men, often on gay men. This makes me wish I were a man, or at least sort of androgynous. These feelings have led me to question my gender identity. I am female and dress in a very feminine way, but I feel like this might be more of a reflection of societal expectations than what I actually want. Sometimes I really want to wear men's clothes and wish I could just wear either without it seeming strange. Sorry if this question is incoherent, I just have a lot of questions jumbled around in my head right now.