Tag: lesbian


Do you think I’m a lesbian because of my boyfriend ...

Hi. I'm very confused at the moment. I have always known i am attracted to girls and boys. I have a boyfriend that i have been going out with on and off for four years. Sometimes we broke up because we keep fighting (as we don't have much in common) and the last time was because i stopped having sex with him as kept thinking of girls. We broke up and i had sex with girls and really loved it, but he couldn't stand being 'just friends' and said we cant see each other again if we don't get back together, so we did. Now its starting to happen again. I love him but sometimes i don't think I'm 'ín love' with him in that way.. I always think of girls when having sex (which most of the time i only do for him). Do you think i am lesbian? Thank you.


Confused about my feelings for both women and men

I'm very confused and could use help. I'm a college student and for most of my life I considered myself straight. None of my relationships with guys worked, they all felt forced. Touching them (even just holding hands) was a chore and kissing them made me Ill. I still wanted to date them, of course, but I couldn't seem to be attracted or close to them. Eventually, I chalked it up to me just being unable to commit. Then I got to college and started looking around. I still want to date guys, but I find myself looking at girls with much more interest. I could see myself with them physically, which I never had with guys, but despite that I still don't know if I'm bi, straight, lesbian, or bi-curious and, since I live in a fairly homophobic area of the country, I have no idea how to figure it out and no one to talk to. Any ideas would be much appreciated.


I was heart-broken by guys, now I like lesbian porn, ...

I am a girl of 22 years.i was straight til now.i had two boyfriends with whom i had some petting kinda sexual relationship.i was really in love but they broke my heart.Now i kinda of hate boys i thought it would change but i like lesbian porn.i want to change it.HOW?i need help.or how can i live





I was a tomboy. I admire girls. Am I straight ...

When I was a child, I was a tomboy. I had short hair and wore boys clothes and got teased a lot, usually called a "he-she". I simply liked short hair and loose clothes but as I got older I found myself curious about girls. I've always liked guys and have only dated and had sex with guys, but I look at and admire girls a lot. I used to look at girls only online because they turned me on and I thought that males, aside from their torsos, looked weird and even ugly. I dress, act, and look more feminine now, but also find that I'm fantasizing about girls and looking at girls more and even wishing I could try being with one. I do like and am used to guys though, and I get shy around girls even if they aren't bi or lesbian. I'm not sure if I truly am bi, because I'm not sure I would truly like to be with a girl in real life, and trying it scares me even though I also want to. Am I straight and this is just a phase, or should I try it? What should I do?




I’m a lesbian, so why am I attracted to one ...

i'm 29 and living now here in rome. for 11 years i'm living as a lesbian, and i'm happy with who i am.been with a live in relationship that lasted for 3 years then all of a sudden i felt something like being confused. i started admiring a man, imagining being with him then after a day i felt disgusted or yucky on thinking that i'm with him. it happen twice. am i really a lesbian? why do i feel like this? thanks a lot and looking forward for your answer.


How do I tell my friend I like her when ...

I'm a high school student and I've always had crushes on guys, but they types of guys I liked were "unattainable", whether they were married or whatever. Anyway, just recently I've started having "thoughts" about one of my female friends at school. I mentioned the "unattainable guys" because I think that subconsciously I was picking them because I didn't really want to get the guys. I've always been a tomboy and all; people, even my parents, have thought that I could be a lesbian or bisexual. Anyway, my concern isn't about my sexuality, I don't care if I'm bi, gay, or hetero, all I want to know is what do I do about this friend of mine. I really like her and all. I think about her constantly and she's the only person I ever WANT to hang out with. I want to tell her because it would be so lovely to BE WITH her, but I'm afraid that she will be scared off by my little dilemma. I've never done something like this and would love to know "how do I tell her"?



I am a lesbian in love with a guy… is ...

okay so I identify as a lesbian but im in love with a guy... hes the only guy i have ever loved .... and i do not identify as a bisexual.... other than this guy I find all other men disgusting and always have.... is it possible to be a lesbian that has fallen in love with a guy or am i bisexual?