Tag: lesbian


Je n’ai aucune expérience avec les femmes, mais je les ...

Bonjour, je suis une femme de 21 ans. Je me pose des questions à propos de mon orientation sexuelle depuis quelques temps (moins d'un an). Quand j'ai commencé à me poser des questions, j'étais très perdue, mais maintenant, plus le temps avance, plus cette sensation s'apaise. J'ai déjà eu des copains (j'ai pas eu beaucoup d'expériences, à part de les embrasser), et je n'ai jamais ressenti de « désir sexuel » pour eux (et pour les hommes en général). J'ai vraiment pris conscience cette année, que des filles avec qui j'étais au collège, du lycée, et de la fac (etc) m'attiraient (j'avais confondu ça avec de l'admiration). Je pensais être bisexuelle. Hors maintenant, je regarde que les femmes (et elles m'attirent physiquement et sexuellement). Je regarde de moins en moins (voir quasiment plus) les hommes. Est-ce que même sans expérience je peux connaître mon orientation sexuelle ? En vous remerciant par avance, je vous prie d'agréer l'expression de mes salutations distinguées.


Puis-je savoir si je suis lesbienne si je n’ai jamais ...

Bonjour.Je me demande si je peux vraiment savoir si je suis lesbienne si je n'ai jamais eu de relation ni de rapport avec une fille .Tous mes fantasmes se dirigent uniquement vers les filles ,je rêve de fille la nuit ,j'adore être à cote d'une jolie fille à côte de moi et si elle mets sa main sur ma peau ou passe près de moi je ressent des frissons ,le coeur qui bas très fort ,je mate uniquement les filles ,j'aime enormement le corps feminin,j'adore leur compagnie et j'ai embrasser une fille un jour et c'etait une experience geniale et intense, pourtant parfois mais vraiment plus rarement je regarde les garçons mais le sexe d'un homme me degoute .Ma mère aussi ne pense pas que je sois lesbienne mais que je ressente juste de l'amitié mais je ne crois pas ressentir ça.Aussi ca ne fais que 1 ans que je ressent ça .Aussi je ne connais pas bien la communauté lesbienne et comme je ne suis pas du tout androgyne ni masculine j'ai peur de ne pas être accepter.Pouvez vous m'aider ? Merci à vous


I can’t stop making lesbian jokes to my friend who ...

I've been knowing this girl for like.a year who's now my best friend.. I could tell when I first meet her that she was confused about something.. we got close to each other kissed all the time, touchyfeely or whatever.. later had a sexual experience that she stopped that same day.. I told her.. that no matter what I would always be a friend and now where best friends... she became more open to me about everything.. telling me I'm the first and only guy she's ever been with. but she's scared to be with me because she done wanna running our friendship... but that's not the point... come to find out her last two years of high school she had a girl friend.. yep she was a lesbian.. I was so confused as to the way we were together.. now it's none of that we just hang out with each other and I can't help but make lesbian jokes to her about it.. cuz I'm hurt.. I tell her it hurts.. because I was patient and in the end all I got was a best friend.. but I still feel the same way.. help me.



I’ve always taken pride in my androgyny – am I ...

I'm a lesbian, as of a few years ago, and I've been relatively happy with that until fairly recently. I'm 16, and I feel the need to be male. But not really a masculine male, I'd like to still be able to be pretty. I've also found myself attracted to men again, as well as women, but a relationship with a man wouldn't feel equal or right in a female body. I've always taken pride in my androgyny, even as a child, I'd cross dress and go in public. Does this mean I'm transgendered, and if so, how long before I should tell my parents?


I cheated with a girl. He took me back but ...

Hi, My name is Laura, I'm from Peru. I have a relationship with a boy for about 10 months and lately i cheated him with a girl because i wanted to experiment things with girls,(i told him about that girl that i cheated on, and he said we can get over that so we are still together) i really liked it a lot, but I'm not quite sure if i'm a lesbian? Or am i a bisexual? I told my boyfriend I was a lesbian because i can't stop thinking on girls, and i don't feel the same feeling for boys, and he totally got very sad but he didn't want to break our relationship, neither do i, but i feel atracted to girls. Additional to this, my boyfriend is a little afeminated so i guess when we are in bed i always look at him as a girl, is this normal? Am I a lesbian or a Bi? Thank you for reading my question and I would be really thank you if you reply the soon as possible.


I am in love with my lesbian friend !

im a 23 year old male & im in love with my lesbian friend!, she's 26 & been a lesbian for only 3 years, but in those 3 years she has been in the same relationship, & bought 2 houses with her partner. they are pretty well set up with eveything & have even been trying 2 have a baby together, however we often have conversations about their relationship & how she isnt 100% about it. we spend alot of time together & often get touchy feely, specially when we have had a few drinks. i cant stop thinking about her & honestly beleive she is my ferfect match. i dont know how to bring it up with her, without losing her completly & ruining what we have at the moment! any ideas would be helpfull.



(English) Was it true love?

I fell for a woman, not just her looks but personality. It was only seven weeks before I stated I love you to her and she said it back at first unsure then later she would tell me it on her own and clinging onto me, now she says she never did love me. And worst of all doesn't see me as a girl friend anymore. Where did it all go wrong?I fell for a woman, not just her looks but personality. It was only seven weeks before I stated I love you to her and she said it back at first unsure then later she would tell me it on her own and clinging onto me, now she says she never did love me. And worst of all doesn't see me as a girl friend anymore. Where did it all go wrong?


My husband is trans – I feel like he was ...

My husband of 29 years announced today that he wanted to start taking hormones. That he would grow small breasts and his voice would change a bit. That he would have to have his penis removed---as it would shrivel up because of the hormones. First of all---is that true? I am at a loss. I only knew that he liked on ocasion to wear women's shoes---when we got married. It has escalated from there. He has has several affairs---he says only mentally---but I am not certain. I have tried to give him the benefit of the doubt---but I am not comfortable with his recent announcement. I do not wish to live as a lesbian---first of all because I have wishes and desires that will not be met. Also if my job gets wind of this---they will look for anything possible to get rid of me. There has really been no discussion of this---he refuses. He says that it is totally his decision and he does not care what I have to say or think about it. I feel like he was not honest with me from the start...


What if I’m a lesbian? My attractions confuse me.

Here’s my issue: I’m confused about my sexuality. I think men are handsome and attractive and if a guy I liked told me he liked me too and asked me out, I’d go out with him. When I look at a cute guy, I notice it and I smile. But, when I look at a girl, albeit in my mind not finding her attractive, sometimes I get a bit turned on and I get really confused about it. This has been floating in my mind for awhile and when I forget about the constant ‘What if I’m a Lesbian’ thoughts out of my mind and realize for a short while that I don’t like them, that ‘attraction’ disappears for awhile until it pops in my mind again ‘What if I’m a lesbian’ out of nowhere and I get afraid. So, what am I ? Bi-Curious ? Bisexual ? Lesbian ? Straight ? I really don’t know and I wish someone’d help me…



I’m female but have gender identity confusion

I'm having some confusion with gender identity/sexual orientation & with figuring out how to resolve these issues. I'm either bi-sexual or lesbian (more attracted to woman but also to some men) I've only dated men and have come out to just a few friends. I'm more confused about gender identity. I'm not sure if transgender is the right term to use as I don't think my feelings are as strong as most who consider themselves transgender. Recently I began having feelings in the back of my mind where I refer to myself as male; I was definitely a tomboy as a child. At same time I don't loathe my body at all, and as for appearance I like to wear makeup, sometimes skirts, but am not at all girly. However I've had some anxiety from these "male" feelings and while I don't feel I want/need to transition, I've also realized that when fantasizing about women I'm sometimes in a male role (sometimes feeling I have that anatomy) Have others experienced similar? What did they do? I'm shy to