Tag: heart


My strong feelings continue – should I tell her so?

I am 16 years old, I am a bisexual girl, and I am in love with a close friend of mine, who is also bisexual. I have felt this way about her one year and a half. When I met her I didn't know or accept that I was bi, and I didn't know that she was bi either. We had an innocent friendship at the beginning. Last summer I realized that I wanted to kiss her more than anything. One night on a sleepover she unexpectedly asked me to kiss her, and it was the most beautiful and erotic moment of my life, up until that moment. I guess I had my first real and meaningful kiss with her. She started dating this guy and we would constantly fight for her. I still don't know if she knows that I love her or if she thinks that I'm just having fun. We flirt a lot, we've kissed many times, and it definitely had a sexual connotation to it, as opposed to just two friends joking around. Since it's been almost two years and my feelings are as strong as ever, I'm confused as to whether I should tell her or not.


I want to leave Tunisia for a country that allows ...

Dear experts, I'm gay and I live in Tunisia..My problem is my sexuality : I'm gay and it is clear that I don't fit here..People here always think that gays or lesbians are sluts; they treat us like dirt and they hate to get in touch with us..I'm always keeping a low profile but the problem comes from my classmate who's gay too but very effeminate and that puts us in so many troubles..I like him very much as he's my best friend and he stands by my side whenever I feel lonely..I don't wanna give up my friendship with him but many people criticize me and hate me because I walk with him..When I walk in my own, it is hard to say that I'm gay but with him it's very clear.. Does being gay means "I'm a slut" ? Should I reject my best friend coz he's effeminate? Also , I can not find a boyfriend , I've been searching for 4 years now! Should I give up ? I really need a boyfriend to love and get my sexual needs but it is hard here..Please Alterheros help me and advise me . Thank you very much. AND I'm 21 year old from Tunisia and you know that homosexuality is illegal in my country. I feel very sad all the time coz we're treated like dirt and people stare at us like we're viruses. So I've decided I should get way and live somewhere else where homosexuality is legal..I've thought about meeting a man from Europe who can save me from the hell I'm in by marrying him ,from a country like Sweden , Spain, Canada or Holland ..My question is "Will I have troubles getting visa if it is for same sex marriage purpose knowing that homosexuality is forbidden by constitution here ? Will they grant me visa? And what if I'm thinking of Asylum, will they grant me that? Another question, if they grant me visa or asylum, will authorities in my country punish me using laws ? Plz Alterhéros , Help me!


I’m a very confused boi – is it wrong to ...

I'm 15 going on 16, and I'm just, confused about stuff. I thought I had it figured out. I like girls, I'm a girl, so I'm gay. Fantastic. I'm kinda girly but I love being called a guy and dressing masculine. I thought about being male but I want to stay female. I want to identify as female but go by some unisex name that could be either gender. I tell people I'm a boi (not boy) but they don't care. And I go to an all girls private school. Is it wrong to want to be both genders? I don't want to not be a female anymore; I feel that I'm more of the female side than male. But, there's something so appeasing about being a guy. I've even considered staying a girl and getting a surgery for a masculine chest because I don't like my breasts (they're big). I'm just so unsure and I can't seem to find people to relate to. What's wrong with me? And now I may even like guys again? Just what's going on? -Shadow/Jen



I’ve fallen for my friend but I don’t know if ...

There Is This Girl, Ive Known Her For About 2 Years And Im In Love With Her Now. We Are Really Good Friends, We Tell Eachother EveryThing And She Can Read Me Like A Book. I Trust Her With My Heart And Some Of My Friends Dont Like Her But That Does Not Change How I Feel. She Is Amazing, She Is One Of A Kind. Ive Never Met Anyone Like Her But She Likes Boys But Never Says She Wont Go For Girls. I Dont Know If She Likes Me Or If She Ever Will But Ive Never Felt Like This With AnyOne Else, I Need Your Advise Please?!? x



Why do I need to fantasize about men to have ...

I'm a girl, dating a girl. We have sex all the time, but usually the only way I can have an orgasm is by imagining myself with a guy, or if I'm drunk. When I was with a guy, however, I never orgasmed, and found the experience uniquely unpleasant. I think women are beautiful, sexy and I get crushes on them all the time. I never get crushes on guys. I'm ashamed because the girl that I'm dating is wonderful, and everything else about our relationship is wonderful and amazing and I'm happier than I've ever been. I'd like to be with her for a long, long time. She just gets really, really disappointed when I don't have an orgasm, so I started imagining myself with a guy and it worked. My mom says that my not liking being with guys is because of my bad relationships with men. Now I'm afraid that this might be true, and that if it is, I shouldn't be with this girl, who I really want to be with. Can you please give me some advice or help? Thanks.