Tag: Gwénaël

I’m gay, but keep having ‘straight’ dreams.

Ever since I became sexually cognisant, I have identified as gay. From that time onward, all my sexual fantasies, dreams &c. have been about men, but lately I've been having what can only be termed "straight" dreams, or dreams in which I am confronted with two options, a man and a woman. The man has always been this guy to whom I am attracted, but the woman has been imaginary. In my dreams they tell me that I must make a choice between the two of them, but I tell them I cannot as I care for both of them. These dreams have been bothering me excessively since I've never really questioned my sexuality before--I've always just known to whom I was attracted. What could be the cause of this sudden confusion? I am under a lot of stress right now, but is that the sole reason for these dreams?