Tag: guy



I don’t want to keep being everyone’s poster-boy

So, I have been really confused about what I want in terms of my gender identity. When I look in the mirror I don't want to see "handsome" or anything male about myself. I really enjoy being a guy and I know this because I couldn't imagine life without my penis. I'm guessing you can call me genderqueer or androgynous, but how do I know if this is what I really want? I've already taken steps to look more female. I do my eyebrows, shave my body, wear makeup, and now I'm letting my hair grow. I feel really confident but my ultimate goal would be to pass as an actual girl from the face. My mom and dad are not giving me their approval anytime soon - I've done so much to be everyone's "poster child", and now I just want to break free from the boy everyone thinks I am. Any advice?


My bi girlfriend flirts with girls, but doesnt’ like when ...

ok I go out with this bi girl and I noticed that she has been flirting with other girls while we're dating. I don't if I should get angry at that or if I should feel threatened by it but I have been angry about it. so wut I did I started to flirt with other girls and she started catching a fits and yelling at me -_- I don't know if I should be angry that she's flirting with other girls or not...



How could I not know i was transgendered all this ...

I've started having doubts about my gender identity-but I'm not sure if I'm transgendered coz I didn't grow up thinking I was "in the wrong body". These feelings have slowly gotten stronger, I don't think they just came out of nowhere. Sometimes I feel "genderless" and other times I feel I would rather be male. I hate my female parts-I think they're disgusting. I hate my breasts. I'm not sure if I would want a penis-but i often fantasize about having one and having sex with a woman. I like to wear clothes that make me look more masculine, and sometimes when I'm alone I stuff my underwear and pretend I'm a guy. But I still look and act feminine(at least that's what other people say). I hate being a girl and feel I would be happier and more confident as a guy. I am so confused, what's wrong with me? How can I be transgendered, wouldn't that be something I would have always known? Is this just some weird fantasy/fetish I have? What's going on with me?


Should I ignore the sick feeling I get when kissing ...

I've identified myself as a lesbian and come out to my sister and mom, but recently I'd been dating this guy who to me is the greatest person ever but I am not sexually attracted to him. We'd been going out for about two years and had never even as much kissed, but lately I felt pressured to be sexual with him because he'd been so patient with me all these years. Last time we went out we kissed and I just felt sick to my stomach because I was not at all into him in that way. Now I don't know what to say or do because I don't want to lose him as a friend. Should I be honest with him and tell him how I feel or try to get past it and work it out somehow?


I am a lesbian in love with a guy… is ...

okay so I identify as a lesbian but im in love with a guy... hes the only guy i have ever loved .... and i do not identify as a bisexual.... other than this guy I find all other men disgusting and always have.... is it possible to be a lesbian that has fallen in love with a guy or am i bisexual?



I am being forced into an arranged marriage

Ever since I was 16, my family suggested I get married to a family friend's son, and we've been together ever since. But I don't feel like I've ever loved him, I feel forced to be with him and that makes me very upset. I also have very strong feelings for this other guy but he said he didn't want to be with me, and this just makes me very sad. I feel I have very limited options as to what to do next. How can I get out of this mess? I feel so confused.


My secret life

I first realized that i was lesbian about 3 months ago and it has disturbed my mind ever since. It's been badgering my weary brain like constant and annoying firecrackers going off simultaneously. There's no way to escape, it's an ever hanging shroud over my head that i'm always aware of. So this is the first time that I have ever worried to much about telling people something.