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Not looking for a sex change, but want to be ...

i'm a 44year old male but i don't class myself as a male or female however i do wear womens' cloths some times and underwear 24/7 i don't even own a pair of men's pants i'm not looking for a sex change but i am desperate to be castrated as i hate having erections i have no interest in women only men and i'm totally submissive i need to talk to my doctor but here in the UK they seem very unwilling to help how do talk to my doctor about this subject without making myself look a complete lunatic i don't want to go to some seedy bdsm club /s&m party where things can go wrong, please help


I am terrified to reveal my true sexual identity

For about three years now I've been attempting to come to terms with my issues concerning gender and sexuality. I am fifteen years old, and have fully accepted myself as being born in the body of a woman but having the mind and spirit of a man. I've felt nothing but confusion and pain ever since I came to terms with this. I can't stand my body, and I want things to be corrected as soon as possible. The thing is, I am absolutely terrified of telling my friends and family about my feelings and desire to change the person they know. Neither group is very understanding when it comes to sexuality and things like that. I've dealt with severe depression, and still do, mostly because of my gender identity problems. So I have a therapist, and he understands...but has no words to help this fear. I'm scared that they'll disown me, or that I'll be the complete screw up of the family and they'll all be ashamed of me. How do I get over this fear and just come out with it?!


Meeting other gay male teens in Humberside UK

hi, i'm a gay 14 year old and i feel like i'm lacking contact with other gays and its bringing me down a little bit. I've tried to meet guys near me but there aren't any obvious places to find gays. I was wondering if you knew of or could find any resources for meeting gays in my area, Beverley, Humberside, England. thanks :)



(English) Friend to Foe to Love

I have a boyfriend, I have a life but I also have a gang, a group of best mates. We did everything together. We used to go to the same school, we faced the same bullies, we had the same problems, we came out together, and we even shared a house together to save money. We were “sisters” in all the sense of the word excluding our genders. There was Henry, the cool one, the leader. He works for a magazine now. There was Karl; he was the innocent one always getting mistaken. There was me, Sam the different one always a bit uncool but confident (especially when it came to dating) and Dan. Dan was the cheeky one, the most funny and the cleverest. For a long time I had a deep crush on Dan. As a confused teenager I found myself staring at him for hour on end. Then I discovered Boyzone and got over him. Now however I’m not sure he got over me.I have a boyfriend, I have a life but I also have a gang, a group of best mates. We did everything together. We used to go to the same school, we faced the same bullies, we had the same problems, we came out together, and we even shared a house together to save money. We were “sisters” in all the sense of the word excluding our genders. There was Henry, the cool one, the leader. He works for a magazine now. There was Karl; he was the innocent one always getting mistaken. There was me, Sam the different one always a bit uncool but confident (especially when it came to dating) and Dan. Dan was the cheeky one, the most funny and the cleverest. For a long time I had a deep crush on Dan. As a confused teenager I found myself staring at him for hour on end. Then I discovered Boyzone and got over him. Now however I’m not sure he got over me.



MY hormones! AH! I don’t want a label, but where ...

Can you change your sexuality? Lately, I've been really really confused. I'm not sure what to consider the feelings i have. I think I'm bi because I like girls, and have had successful relationships with them, but I also fantasize about men. Sometimes I think more about men than I think about women. Then most recently I got to a point when I was almost convinced I was gay because I would check out one of my attractive male friends and have sexual fantasies about him. At the same time at school, I had a crush on a girl. I know my hormones are ridiculously crazy, but all these feelings have left me at a point in my life where I just want to be straight. I will admit that part of the reason is because i analyze media and straight is the way to go, but if my memory serves me correct, I liked girls since 5th grade and not until 7th grade did I become interested in boys. So finally, Do I just let my hormones do whatever they want? I don't want a label, I just don't want to be confused any more.



Am I asexual?

Let me start of by saying that I am happy, content and have a family that I truly love (you'll know why this is important). I'm 20 something person, who has a few friends and am happy about that. I don't mind being alone. I also on the other hand have violent thoughts and tendencies, which I really don't mind as long as I don't hurt anybody (I haven't and probably won't). I also watch porn and masturbate daily, mainly to avoid wet dreams (I watch legal 18+ non hardcore consensual films, for about 5 minutes to get the task at-hand done). I never ever had a girlfriend and don't plan on having one too. People mistake this for being shy, etc which I truly am not. I've have had girls hit on me from time to time. I also have a tendency of "putting them down" ungracefully in the hopes of not being their object of attention (I might have actually hurt some, though that's not my intention). I've had "crushes" VERY irregularly. I also, sometimes feel women are "yucky". I'm wondering if I fit the bill of being an asexual or am I just F-ed up? I also tend to be shy around the opposite sex (no I am not scared/terrified of talking to girls, etc). So is it asexuality or "just let me be me" kind of thing? I ask this because I have read that men are at their sexual peak at their 20's and sadly I feed very/no need to try to play the field. Does my behavior have any anomalies that could indicate a not so superficial problem?


Are there any support group for transsexuals in Canada ?

I'm trangender. For awhile I was wondering if I was a lesbian or something, but then I started realizing that mentally i'm a boy. I really want the operation but I don't know much about it. Also, I'm considering getting hormones. My parents are really religious and i can't locate a support group in canada. are there any?


I am a lesbian and I live in a very ...

I am a lesbian, but I haven't really told anyone. I live in a very religious area, and my family, and most of my friends are very religious, and homophobic. I'm a christian but I think that people are born gay. Growing up I have always been taught that being gay is dirty, and wrong. When I was younger I told myself it was wrong to like girls, and that I was disgusting. I got really depressed, and even tried killing myself, but no one ever really noticed. I don't know what to do. I'm getting depressed because I have to hide the real me. I have lost intrest in a lot of things, and my normally flawless grades have been slipping a lot. I keep telling myself that when I graduate high school I'm going to go far away where I can meet people who accept me for who I am, but that still doesn't help much. I know I need to tell people about this, but a lot of people that I know don't believe in depression, and that if you're a Christian it's impossible to be depressed. What should I do ?



Multimundo: a new coalition for queer cultural communities

May 8, 2006, was an historic day for Québec's queer cultural communities. For the very first time in North America and maybe even in the world, the LGBTQ community organizations that offer services to queers from cultural minorities held a meeting to create a new alliance: the Multimundo Coalition.