I am 19 years old, and I came out to my parents as a lesbian, because after dating a girl I discovered I like women. But I broke up this girl because she wanted to kiss me and when she touched me I did not feel anything. What happens is that I contacted this girl online and I felt in love after I read something she have had written. We were sending messages to each others for two months before we met in person, but when we started dating I felt disappointed at her because she was not the person I thought she was. What happens is that I never was attracted to her physically.
I consider myself a lesbian because I like women but I am not physically attracted to them, I meant just by romance.
I wonder if you can be lesbian without sexual attraction or this is a matter of time.
I do not see myself in the future with a man but with a girl. I do not know what it will happen because I just want romance and no sexual relationship.
Please give me advice I am still confused.