Tag: friendship


Je suis amoureuse de ma meilleure amie, mais elle est ...

Il y a quel que jours je savais pas si j'étais bisexuelle et maintenent oui je suis tomber amoureuse de ma meilleure amie et elle est hétérosexuel quand je la vois j'ai des papillon dans le ventre et je rougie je l'évite depuis un moment et je sais plus quoi faire je devrais tu lui avouer pour apres me faire dire quel ressent pas la même chose que moi ou je devrais garder ca pour moi ?


I can’t stop making lesbian jokes to my friend who ...

I've been knowing this girl for like.a year who's now my best friend.. I could tell when I first meet her that she was confused about something.. we got close to each other kissed all the time, touchyfeely or whatever.. later had a sexual experience that she stopped that same day.. I told her.. that no matter what I would always be a friend and now where best friends... she became more open to me about everything.. telling me I'm the first and only guy she's ever been with. but she's scared to be with me because she done wanna running our friendship... but that's not the point... come to find out her last two years of high school she had a girl friend.. yep she was a lesbian.. I was so confused as to the way we were together.. now it's none of that we just hang out with each other and I can't help but make lesbian jokes to her about it.. cuz I'm hurt.. I tell her it hurts.. because I was patient and in the end all I got was a best friend.. but I still feel the same way.. help me.


I don’t want to stay lovesick but I don’t know ...

I am desperately, passionately in love with my female best friend. Sadly, she's hetero and was scared away from any interest in women by a bully coming on to her in grade school. I don't know what to do, but can't continue this way (which is to say lovesick). What course of action do you recommend? I know I can try to control it but it's hard. Thanks in advance for your understanding.



I am in love with my lesbian friend !

im a 23 year old male & im in love with my lesbian friend!, she's 26 & been a lesbian for only 3 years, but in those 3 years she has been in the same relationship, & bought 2 houses with her partner. they are pretty well set up with eveything & have even been trying 2 have a baby together, however we often have conversations about their relationship & how she isnt 100% about it. we spend alot of time together & often get touchy feely, specially when we have had a few drinks. i cant stop thinking about her & honestly beleive she is my ferfect match. i dont know how to bring it up with her, without losing her completly & ruining what we have at the moment! any ideas would be helpfull.


Telling my friend I like her changed our relationship, but ...

Okay so i like my best friend, but shes straight and I'm gay. I've liked her for a year and a half and the first time I told her it ruined our whole friendship for a month.. and ever since it hasn't been the same. I don't know how to get over my feelings for her, and I really don't think its just another stage. The last time I liked her I used to have dreams about her and then I told her and she took pictures of herself for me.. I really like her but I don't want to ruin our friendship. So what should I do?


I met this guy, but I don’t know if I ...

ok, I met this guy few months ago, so now after some time, we've been to cinema, restaurants, we talked, he is very shy and I'm not shy at all, and I think that he knows every detail of me bc I told him almost everything about me. so my question is, "does he likes me" and "should I tell him that I'm bi and that I like him". Btw, he is really kind to me, he accepts everything, he smiles at my jokes,he remembers every questions that I've asked him, he looks at me and sometimes gives me the glimpse with eyes, once I just passed by him and gave him a smile, and he returned the same way, with one big happy smile. Also the thing I noticed is when I'm with his mom he just moves away or just disappears (btw he is very close with his mom). He is super intellectual and he is very simple in clothing.I'm so desperate because I don't know what to do,I really like him,but I'm afraid to tell him,what if I'm trippin maybe he's kind and smiles with everyone like that, maybe he is just a geek who never had a girlfriend. help



My friend still leads me on after she said she ...

I wrote in earlier about how I like my friend that is a girl, and how she was giving mixed signals. You advised me to talk to her and I did. It sucked. Every reason I gave to her about leading me on, she shut down. I asked why would she say that she gets excited when I text her, and she said she does with all her friends. I asked why she would be afraid of losing me, and she said because I’m a friend. Every answer was “you’re my friend”. That was 2 months ago. Now we’re good but she’s confusing me again. We were discussing hugging which we’ve never done, and I asked how she would like me to. She said as tight and as close as I want, as long as it lasts forever. When I asked what she meant, she said we could stand there all day holding each other and nothing else would matter. Then one day we said what we liked about each other, and she told me I had a nice body but "not in a weird way", pretty eyes that she gets lost looking into, and I’m so sweet. What does she want from me?


She has feelings for me, and I don’t know what ...

I am a "straight" woman going through a divorce. My best friend is a lesbian. We have been friends for about a year. We have kissed a couple of times but mostly just for the hell of it on my part. Recently I find myself thinking about her all the time and having very leading conversations with her. She and I have actually ended up in bed twice in the last few weeks. She has made me very aware that she has feelings for me. What do I do? I am afraid of hurting her. She is my best friend and want the friendship to last. I am still attracted to men (and honestly don't think I could ever give them up) and have told her that! Should I just let things happen? My comfort level with her sexually is questionable. I enjoy the attention but am unable to reciprocate. I imagine that takes time? She is the only girl that I have ever been with. Should I stop the sexual relationship before we are both hurting more? I'd never be with another girl. We have just grown very close.


I’m bi and I like my bi friend – how ...

I'm sure you get these questions a lot, but none of the ones i found really fit me. I'm a bisexual girl, and i like one of my friends, who is bisexual too, and knows that im bi.I think we flirt alot, we're always laughing with each other and playing around, but I;m not sure if it's the right time to tell her. Plus, our friends are usually with us all the time so im not sure when i'll be able to get her alone. We're really good friends and I don;t want her to feel awkward if she doesn't like me back. What do I do?



(English) Friend to Foe to Love

I have a boyfriend, I have a life but I also have a gang, a group of best mates. We did everything together. We used to go to the same school, we faced the same bullies, we had the same problems, we came out together, and we even shared a house together to save money. We were “sisters” in all the sense of the word excluding our genders. There was Henry, the cool one, the leader. He works for a magazine now. There was Karl; he was the innocent one always getting mistaken. There was me, Sam the different one always a bit uncool but confident (especially when it came to dating) and Dan. Dan was the cheeky one, the most funny and the cleverest. For a long time I had a deep crush on Dan. As a confused teenager I found myself staring at him for hour on end. Then I discovered Boyzone and got over him. Now however I’m not sure he got over me.I have a boyfriend, I have a life but I also have a gang, a group of best mates. We did everything together. We used to go to the same school, we faced the same bullies, we had the same problems, we came out together, and we even shared a house together to save money. We were “sisters” in all the sense of the word excluding our genders. There was Henry, the cool one, the leader. He works for a magazine now. There was Karl; he was the innocent one always getting mistaken. There was me, Sam the different one always a bit uncool but confident (especially when it came to dating) and Dan. Dan was the cheeky one, the most funny and the cleverest. For a long time I had a deep crush on Dan. As a confused teenager I found myself staring at him for hour on end. Then I discovered Boyzone and got over him. Now however I’m not sure he got over me.