Tag: friend


I don’t want to make the same mistake twice !

I have a crush on one of my female friends. She knows I'm gay, I do not what her orientation is. Every time someone else asks her who she likes, or if she's ever liked anyone, she always avoids the question. But like I said, I really like her. I'm wondering whether to tell her or not. Last year, i was in something of the same position, and the other girl freaked when I told her. I DO NOT want to make the same mistake twice. Last year hurt like anything. The other problem is that we're both in the same tight group of friends, and I have a feeling telling her, if the feelings were not mutual, would screw up the whole group. (It would cause a lot of incredibly awkward situations at best.) Do I tell her? If anything, is there a way to inquire her own sexual orientation without being terribly blunt? Friggin' middle school drama.


I am in love with my lesbian friend !

im a 23 year old male & im in love with my lesbian friend!, she's 26 & been a lesbian for only 3 years, but in those 3 years she has been in the same relationship, & bought 2 houses with her partner. they are pretty well set up with eveything & have even been trying 2 have a baby together, however we often have conversations about their relationship & how she isnt 100% about it. we spend alot of time together & often get touchy feely, specially when we have had a few drinks. i cant stop thinking about her & honestly beleive she is my ferfect match. i dont know how to bring it up with her, without losing her completly & ruining what we have at the moment! any ideas would be helpfull.




Telling my friend I like her changed our relationship, but ...

Okay so i like my best friend, but shes straight and I'm gay. I've liked her for a year and a half and the first time I told her it ruined our whole friendship for a month.. and ever since it hasn't been the same. I don't know how to get over my feelings for her, and I really don't think its just another stage. The last time I liked her I used to have dreams about her and then I told her and she took pictures of herself for me.. I really like her but I don't want to ruin our friendship. So what should I do?


My friend still leads me on after she said she ...

I wrote in earlier about how I like my friend that is a girl, and how she was giving mixed signals. You advised me to talk to her and I did. It sucked. Every reason I gave to her about leading me on, she shut down. I asked why would she say that she gets excited when I text her, and she said she does with all her friends. I asked why she would be afraid of losing me, and she said because I’m a friend. Every answer was “you’re my friend”. That was 2 months ago. Now we’re good but she’s confusing me again. We were discussing hugging which we’ve never done, and I asked how she would like me to. She said as tight and as close as I want, as long as it lasts forever. When I asked what she meant, she said we could stand there all day holding each other and nothing else would matter. Then one day we said what we liked about each other, and she told me I had a nice body but "not in a weird way", pretty eyes that she gets lost looking into, and I’m so sweet. What does she want from me?


Does she want ME to kiss her? Or that other ...

hi my name is maribel, i have this Bi friend that i met last year. we have been talking, texting, and been spending so much time together. We really gotten to know each other pritty good, and i don't really know if she likes me? Because she talks about this other girl a lot (is it to get me jealous?), and i act like if i don't mined but really,I'm burning in the inside! Why doesn't she just hang out with the girl that she likes? why me? She sometimes even blows off the other girl to hang out with me? i have told her that i liked her but i couldn't talk about it no more. so we left it like that. My birthday just passed&how my birthday is on valentines day, she spent it with me, and i was going to kiss her for the first time but i really don't know if i should even think of that knowing she likes someone else? p.s. she Has been talking about A kiss,but she talks about that other girl& how she better get a kiss from someone before summer?(doesn't have to be that girl) What does all this mean? HELP



i’m a guy in love with my lesbian best friend

I am a straight, 20 year old, male and I am madly in love with a lesbian. I met her my first year of college, and I was so certain, from the very moment she sat down in front of me in my math class, that she was the one for me. I was absolutely heart broken when I found out she was gay. Not that I had an issue with her orientation, rather because I knew there was very little chance she could ever have feelings for me. I knew it would be best to just let it drop then and there. Yet, despite all reason, nearly two years later I have found myself even more in love with her. She is now my best friend, we share everything except the feelings I have for her. She knows this, but it is tough for us to bring the topic up and discuss it in depth. I know for my, and our friendship's sake, it is best to move on. But my stubborn hear won't let me. I can't feel anything for anyone else, and I am at an absolute loss as to what I should do.


She has feelings for me, and I don’t know what ...

I am a "straight" woman going through a divorce. My best friend is a lesbian. We have been friends for about a year. We have kissed a couple of times but mostly just for the hell of it on my part. Recently I find myself thinking about her all the time and having very leading conversations with her. She and I have actually ended up in bed twice in the last few weeks. She has made me very aware that she has feelings for me. What do I do? I am afraid of hurting her. She is my best friend and want the friendship to last. I am still attracted to men (and honestly don't think I could ever give them up) and have told her that! Should I just let things happen? My comfort level with her sexually is questionable. I enjoy the attention but am unable to reciprocate. I imagine that takes time? She is the only girl that I have ever been with. Should I stop the sexual relationship before we are both hurting more? I'd never be with another girl. We have just grown very close.


I asked her to hang out but I’m scared of ...

So I have known this girl since elementary school (yes I'm a girl also) but in 5th grade I moved and haven't seen her since then. Until Recently I found her again on myspace, so I added her, and we didn't talk much. So I been trying to get to know her better, because I think she is really pretty. (yes she is a bisexual) too. The thing is I don't know her like that, and its hard trying to talk to her, cause I'm really scared of rejection. So recently she been really upset and for some reason knowing she is upset make me upset too. So I want ot know is that more then attraction, if so what should I do?...Honestly I felt like I like her, but then again I don't talk to her much and haven't seen her since 5th grade. What should I do?... P.S. I did ask her if she want to hang out during winter break and she say that would be cool. So tell me what I should do =[



If she doesn’t like me, why does she make out ...

K I have this best friend we have been friends for a year and a half and I have liked her a year into it. I told her I liked her and she says she doesn't but she Will kiss me, make out with me, and hold my hand and lay on me and she will let me hold her. But everytime I ask her she says sorry no I don't like you. I'm so confused does she like me? She knows I like her but when I say I like you she stays away but when I say I don't like you she attacks me in a very sexual way and basically f's me. What should I do?