Tag: feeling

Does she want ME to kiss her? Or that other ...

hi my name is maribel, i have this Bi friend that i met last year. we have been talking, texting, and been spending so much time together. We really gotten to know each other pritty good, and i don't really know if she likes me? Because she talks about this other girl a lot (is it to get me jealous?), and i act like if i don't mined but really,I'm burning in the inside! Why doesn't she just hang out with the girl that she likes? why me? She sometimes even blows off the other girl to hang out with me? i have told her that i liked her but i couldn't talk about it no more. so we left it like that. My birthday just passed&how my birthday is on valentines day, she spent it with me, and i was going to kiss her for the first time but i really don't know if i should even think of that knowing she likes someone else? p.s. she Has been talking about A kiss,but she talks about that other girl& how she better get a kiss from someone before summer?(doesn't have to be that girl) What does all this mean? HELP

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I want to leave Tunisia for a country that allows ...

Dear experts, I'm gay and I live in Tunisia..My problem is my sexuality : I'm gay and it is clear that I don't fit here..People here always think that gays or lesbians are sluts; they treat us like dirt and they hate to get in touch with us..I'm always keeping a low profile but the problem comes from my classmate who's gay too but very effeminate and that puts us in so many troubles..I like him very much as he's my best friend and he stands by my side whenever I feel lonely..I don't wanna give up my friendship with him but many people criticize me and hate me because I walk with him..When I walk in my own, it is hard to say that I'm gay but with him it's very clear.. Does being gay means "I'm a slut" ? Should I reject my best friend coz he's effeminate? Also , I can not find a boyfriend , I've been searching for 4 years now! Should I give up ? I really need a boyfriend to love and get my sexual needs but it is hard here..Please Alterheros help me and advise me . Thank you very much. AND I'm 21 year old from Tunisia and you know that homosexuality is illegal in my country. I feel very sad all the time coz we're treated like dirt and people stare at us like we're viruses. So I've decided I should get way and live somewhere else where homosexuality is legal..I've thought about meeting a man from Europe who can save me from the hell I'm in by marrying him ,from a country like Sweden , Spain, Canada or Holland ..My question is "Will I have troubles getting visa if it is for same sex marriage purpose knowing that homosexuality is forbidden by constitution here ? Will they grant me visa? And what if I'm thinking of Asylum, will they grant me that? Another question, if they grant me visa or asylum, will authorities in my country punish me using laws ? Plz Alterhéros , Help me!

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Why can’t I have an orgasm without disturbing fantasies?

I know that it's normal to fantasize about things you wouldn't actually want in real life, but what if these fantasizes are seemingly the only way I can have an orgasm? It's getting in the way of having an orgasm any other way, such as with my girlfriend. To get off, it's like I have to shut everything else out and focus on the fantasy. Tuning into her just doesn't seem to work. And it's not just her. It's everyone else I've ever been with, and it's not from lack of attraction to my sex partners. These fantasies are what I would consider abhorrent otherwise and I can't help but think to myself WHYYY does this do it for me? These fantasies typically involve gang rape by men and extreme humiliation (me being the object of it). And I'm a lesbian! It's ruining my ability to have sexual intimacy with my girlfriend What should I do? My girlfriend is really down on herself because she can't give me an orgasm... Does this require professional help? I CAN'T tell my girlfriend.

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Not like it used to be – how can I ...

I know i can't go back to what used to be with my boyfriend but things have changed and one week he's deeply in love with me and shows me everything and leaves me without any doubts, but there's other weeks where he barely shows anything. I like talking to him and I don't want to come off as desperate to talk to him or anything because I know it won't be a good idea but we've been fighting because i tell him how i feel but not exactly. I dont plan on telling him to prove me his love because I believe him, I just miss some of the old times where he used to care more and such. What should I do?

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Depression, cutting and facing your parents about bisexuality

For the past two years or so, Ive know I was bisexual. I am currently dating a girl, and have been for about five months. Recently my parents put me in counseling because of my temper. I have been receiving help for about a month, but it isn't doing anything for my newly discovered depression. My counselor says I have "severe depression," and it's affecting me greatly. I've been cutting myself for about a year, and my parents and counselor just found out, they also found out that I am bisexual. My dad called me the worst names in the book and my mom, both of them being raised in a conservative, catholic background, told me that they would never accept me. My parents think me being bisexual is worse than me being gay. I don't know how to cope with with all the things going on, I have been cutting now more than ever, and I just feel like dieing. I'm trying to hold it all in until my next counseling session but I'm not dealing too well. My mom has been hitting me. Please help. Th

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I want to talk to her but how ?

hey! okay so i really like this girl; and her facebook page says she is interested in men and women :) so i realllly like her but she has no idea who i am! i go out of my way just to get a glance of her. im bisexual i guess..but have not told ANYONE! she is so beautiful.and i wanna get to know her..but once again she doesnt even know who i am. ive had a crazy crush on her for about 4 months..and the crush gets deeper and deeper everytime i see her. i wanna talk to her but HOW?! do i just go up to her and say hi?! that would be wierd..shed probaly get wierded out. so what do i do?! i cant stand this pain of not tlaking to her!! i wanna get to know her!! what do i do?! :(

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Is it okay if my mother still breastfeeds me at ...

Hello. My name is Ryan. Im 14. My mother has been breastfeeding since my birth and we see it as a time to grow closer. I do not mind and we do not do it in public or when company is over. My question however is that recently I have been unable to keep from getting an erection while I am suckling. I feel awkward that these feelings are directed at my mother. I have also been trying to make excuses to see her naked, which is not hard as we do not lock doors or close them in my house. I frequently masturbate to thoughts of my mother and seeing her naked, watching her pee, and having sex with me. There is noone else in my family as my father has left us. Just wondering if you have any thoughts on my feelings and wether or not it is ok to be suckling at my age. Ryan

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My best friend is gay, but always want to touch ...

I'm a straight female and my best friend is a gay male. We're very close, we spend almost every day together and it hasn't been a problem before but lately I've felt like some sexual tension has entered our relationship. I know he's curious about being with a girl but he's said he would never do anything with a girl he knew because he wouldn't want to hurt her. In the past when he's been drinking he's begged me to kiss him (I didn't) and/or tried to touch me sexually. Once he abruptly french kissed me but I didn't kiss him back. If there is only one bed somewhere we'll sleep together and he always moves closer to me until we're touching. The thing is he's not bisexual he doesn't even believe people can be bisexual. I'm not sure what he's doing but he's really got me confused. He seems to vascillate between wanting to touch me all the time and being repulsed by being remotely near me. Do you have any insight you can offer? I don't want anything to get in the way of our relationship...

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