Tag: family


If I could pass, would my family support me if ...

I've been crossdressing since 5th grade, in my moms lingerie and other clothes. It started out just out of curiosity, but I couldn't stop. I love it because I do feel feminine which doesn't scare me. I have to admit there is some arousal too. I've also fantasized about being a girl and having sexual relations with another male, but I"m still attracted to girls mostly. I recently became friends with a mtf transgender girl and I find myself speaking more in a feminine tone with her like we were best friends. Depression has really hit me lately. There are times where because of how i feel when i dress as a girl, its no longer just about love of crossdressing, but in truth I like looking in the mirror and it feels right. Am i just a transvestitecrossdresser or should I consider that I might be a woman inside. The last year I've been getting these strong feelings towards being a woman and it only bothers me because I don't know if I could pass and if anybody in my family would support me.


Is it worth opening up to him? I might lose ...

Hi, I'm seventeen and have not been sure about my sexual orientation since when I was about 15. I like girls but there is also a guy I know that i really like even though I really wish a didn't. Unfortunately we are really close friends so I really don't want to risk losing him as a friend, but I really like him. We tend to tease and play around with each other, but he has a girlfriend. I know he probably isn't attracted to me but I feel stuck in the middle because I feel like I'll be miserable for the rest of my life. I know that I'm still young but If this is how its going to be I don't want to have face this. I really don't know if its worth opening up to him and telling him what I feel about him because I really value our friendship but I feel the need to tell somebody. I've liked girls most of my life but now I'm not sure.


I am terrified to reveal my true sexual identity

For about three years now I've been attempting to come to terms with my issues concerning gender and sexuality. I am fifteen years old, and have fully accepted myself as being born in the body of a woman but having the mind and spirit of a man. I've felt nothing but confusion and pain ever since I came to terms with this. I can't stand my body, and I want things to be corrected as soon as possible. The thing is, I am absolutely terrified of telling my friends and family about my feelings and desire to change the person they know. Neither group is very understanding when it comes to sexuality and things like that. I've dealt with severe depression, and still do, mostly because of my gender identity problems. So I have a therapist, and he understands...but has no words to help this fear. I'm scared that they'll disown me, or that I'll be the complete screw up of the family and they'll all be ashamed of me. How do I get over this fear and just come out with it?!



How do I fit in as pansexual at the age ...

I identify as a pansexual, but I feel like I don't fit in with the LGBT Community. Is pansexuality a homosexual subgroup or something else? I am 13 and feel that if I come out people will just ask "how do I know" since I'm young and not fully matured. I don't want to feel like I have to lie to my friends and friends. I feel lost and confused and feel like I no one to turn to.


Confused about my feelings for both women and men

I'm very confused and could use help. I'm a college student and for most of my life I considered myself straight. None of my relationships with guys worked, they all felt forced. Touching them (even just holding hands) was a chore and kissing them made me Ill. I still wanted to date them, of course, but I couldn't seem to be attracted or close to them. Eventually, I chalked it up to me just being unable to commit. Then I got to college and started looking around. I still want to date guys, but I find myself looking at girls with much more interest. I could see myself with them physically, which I never had with guys, but despite that I still don't know if I'm bi, straight, lesbian, or bi-curious and, since I live in a fairly homophobic area of the country, I have no idea how to figure it out and no one to talk to. Any ideas would be much appreciated.




I had a traumatic experience with a man. Now I ...

Hey! I've been put through so many difficult times in my teenage years. Even though i'm still a teenager, I feel as though i've lost my true identity. I am a Muslim and i'm very proud to be, even though the world has degraded my religion in many terrorist aspects. I'm very close to my religion and don't want to lose it. But two years ago *when i was 16* I had a secret boyfriend, to which he was 20 at the time. He took advantage of me in all sexual aspects and basically destroyed my mental and physical wellbeing. I ended up telling my parents as i collapsed one night from everything that he did to me. I eventually exposed the truth of me being 'gay'. Ever since then my family has tried to convince me that i am not. I've even lied about the truth to them saying that 'i was young and dumb and i've moved on', only to get them off my back. I am attracted to men, and only value women as 'friends'. I'm seriously scared. I pray to God that he will assist me through this. But hope is fading.



Should I kill myself if my teacher reacts badly to ...

Hi ! There ! I'm 23 year boy. From my childhood I attracted from both the genders(male,female) and I had relations with some girls and guys too. But now a days I'm more attracted towards males than girls. I'm loving my school teacher who is 40+. From my schoolhood I'm attracted towards him, now the situation is very worse, I couldn't concentrate on any other thing other than him and going to mad, because I cant forget him and can not live without him ! should I say him that I'm a GAY and fall in love with him directly or should I KILL myself ???



Is it wrong to have a sexual attraction towards your ...

Is it wrong to have a sexual attraction towards your brother. I just noticed it last year. I always stare at his body when he takes his shirt off. He has a hot body. Also, when his shorts roll up his thighs I get aroused. He has a great butt and I like to smack it and I also grabbed his penis. He asked me if I was gay, and found out by seeing pictures of shirtless guys on my phone. He is the only person who knows I am gay, but he doesn't know of my feelings toward him sexually. Other things I do are look at him naked when he is about to shower and put my face in his underware. Should I tell him? Should I act on these feelings?