Tag: comfort


She has feelings for me, and I don’t know what ...

I am a "straight" woman going through a divorce. My best friend is a lesbian. We have been friends for about a year. We have kissed a couple of times but mostly just for the hell of it on my part. Recently I find myself thinking about her all the time and having very leading conversations with her. She and I have actually ended up in bed twice in the last few weeks. She has made me very aware that she has feelings for me. What do I do? I am afraid of hurting her. She is my best friend and want the friendship to last. I am still attracted to men (and honestly don't think I could ever give them up) and have told her that! Should I just let things happen? My comfort level with her sexually is questionable. I enjoy the attention but am unable to reciprocate. I imagine that takes time? She is the only girl that I have ever been with. Should I stop the sexual relationship before we are both hurting more? I'd never be with another girl. We have just grown very close.