Tag: boyfriend


I want to move to the US from Tunisia to ...

Hello! I recently got an F1 student visa to the USA , I'm from Tunisia. My boyfriend who lives in Philadelphia helped me. My visa is valid for 3 years. The thing is I met him and he came here and we're in love. So I decided I would love to live with him in the US. I thought about same sex marriage , will that change my visa status if marrying him in a state where same sex is legal ( 5 states in America allow legal same sex marriage) , will be able to stay there and be a resident and later apply for green card? What should I do to stay forever with him? I really love him and want to stay there too in a country that respects me for who I'am . And what if getting married in Canada ? Thanks a lot Alterhéros officials , I appreciate your help.


I cheated with a girl. He took me back but ...

Hi, My name is Laura, I'm from Peru. I have a relationship with a boy for about 10 months and lately i cheated him with a girl because i wanted to experiment things with girls,(i told him about that girl that i cheated on, and he said we can get over that so we are still together) i really liked it a lot, but I'm not quite sure if i'm a lesbian? Or am i a bisexual? I told my boyfriend I was a lesbian because i can't stop thinking on girls, and i don't feel the same feeling for boys, and he totally got very sad but he didn't want to break our relationship, neither do i, but i feel atracted to girls. Additional to this, my boyfriend is a little afeminated so i guess when we are in bed i always look at him as a girl, is this normal? Am I a lesbian or a Bi? Thank you for reading my question and I would be really thank you if you reply the soon as possible.


I fantasize about women during foreplay with my boyfriend

hi. i am in a happy relationship with my boyfriend who i've been with for a year, we are talking about getting engaged sometime in the near future. i have always fantasized about other woman but never actually did anything sexual with a woman,when my boyfriend and i are having sex i never think of other woman but when he is doing any other foreplay i do, i've done it with other boyfriend and it hasn't really bothered me, but last night i started to feel guilty about it. then i started questioning everything about my sexuality. i do not want a relationship with another woman, i want to be with my boyfriend, and eventually get married to , so why do i have to fantasize?. can i also point out i have never orgasmed during sex, only foreplay allows me to do this, which i'm happy with.



My boyfriend is bisexuel, I am insecure that I will ...

I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and about 5 months ago he told me he was bisexual. Since then every time we have sex or during masturbation I fantasize about hi m with other men. But the down side is I'm now insecure about whether or not I can completely satisfy him sexually. Help! I'm so confused! Are these feelings normal? I'm so torn about these conflicting feelings!!


Is she unconsciously sending me a sign with her body ...

Hello, A complicated situation but to get to the point - I have a boyfriend of 2 years, however I have feelings for a girl in my class (I am a girl) I think she does give me some body language signals from what I have read up on in books she seems to do, for example unconsciously point at me with a body part from across the class and I see here staring directly at me for about 5 seconds sometimes with a wide smile other times just staring, (I try not to stare at her) however this could just be me interpreting this all wrong? On the way back from college, we speak on the bus and she doesn't say direct things that would insinuate she likes me too but she does smile a lot and look at my eyes and lips for longer than usual people would. I just don't know whether to tell her at the end of college in 3-4months time how I feel? Other than my boyfriend I don't fancy any other boys although I have had a crush or 2 on other girls but not as strong as I feel for this one girl Please help


My boyfriend won’t stop masturbating with online men!

I am in a long term relationship.I am a 41yr old female and my boyfriend is 36. We met on the internet ( yahoo messenger) and through the years, I had heard several rumors about my boyfriend masturbating with other men. I took it as just rumors and people being hurtful and wanting to cause trouble. I did some checking around and found out it was true. I confronted him and he lied to me about it. Once our relationship took on a serious not I decided to confront him again and tell him that I knew he was masturbating online with other men. After denial and a very heated discussion. He was truthful.He tells me he is not bi or interested in being with a man but he is sexually aroused watching men masturbate.He has told me that he will stop but it hasn't he will wait till I am not around and immediately seek out pictures of men. This has caused me great concern. Am I over reacting and making a big issue out of something that is normal for a straight man to do ?



Do you think I’m a lesbian because of my boyfriend ...

Hi. I'm very confused at the moment. I have always known i am attracted to girls and boys. I have a boyfriend that i have been going out with on and off for four years. Sometimes we broke up because we keep fighting (as we don't have much in common) and the last time was because i stopped having sex with him as kept thinking of girls. We broke up and i had sex with girls and really loved it, but he couldn't stand being 'just friends' and said we cant see each other again if we don't get back together, so we did. Now its starting to happen again. I love him but sometimes i don't think I'm 'ín love' with him in that way.. I always think of girls when having sex (which most of the time i only do for him). Do you think i am lesbian? Thank you.


Should I ignore the sick feeling I get when kissing ...

I've identified myself as a lesbian and come out to my sister and mom, but recently I'd been dating this guy who to me is the greatest person ever but I am not sexually attracted to him. We'd been going out for about two years and had never even as much kissed, but lately I felt pressured to be sexual with him because he'd been so patient with me all these years. Last time we went out we kissed and I just felt sick to my stomach because I was not at all into him in that way. Now I don't know what to say or do because I don't want to lose him as a friend. Should I be honest with him and tell him how I feel or try to get past it and work it out somehow?


How do I juggle my feelings for my boyfriend and ...

I am a 16-year-old girl who has a boyfriend. I have been dating him almost a year and i love him to death. But recently i have developed strong feelings for my best friend. She is confused about her sexuality (partially because of me!) I fantasize about her and i'm so happy when we cuddle. She knows how to touch me too. Like she rubs my stomach or my back perfectly. We kiss each other on the cheek, nose, and forehead and she acts like she wants me to kiss her i just haven't yet. I don't want to ruin either relationship. I don't know what to do...Please Help. I love her as a best friend and more and i love my boyfriend so much, he is there for me even when i am going crazy about another person. What should i do? i'm already planning on kissing my best friend next time we hang out because if i don't i'm going to go insane. My boyfriend thinks i just need to experiment since being bi is a huge part of me yet i haven't done anything.