i have been married for 8 yrs now. to a man. i have always had boyfriends. i have always thought some women were more attractive than others. im very particular with women because i know how we are. ive never found a female whom ive clicked with except until recently. there is this woman who is just like me. same mannerisms,likes,dislikes. even my son likes her. besides me she is the only one whom he is very comfortable around. she and i get along well.ive never gotten along ever with another woman the way i have with her. im wondering does this mean im a lesbian? should i tell her? my husband and i are not intimate. im wondering could that be why im so into this woman. i think of her. not so much sexually;however, that has crossed my mind,but i dont think i would ever act on it. its stimulating and uncommon to actually talk to or be around someone who has so much in common and be a woman.does that mean im a lesbian?should i tell her?help.what does this all mean?