Category: Sexual relation


My partner is asexual and I’m not. How can we ...

I feel kinda awkward asking this but there aren’t many ressources so I think this is my best shot. I’m trans and my bf is also trans. We are in a long distance relationship. He’s asexual and I’m not however he’s pretty okay with having sex he just doesn’t get anything out of it and he prefers kinky things then actual sex. We’ve tried a few things but I wanna find a way I can make both me and him happy sexually dépiste being far apart. Any suggestions on how to do that in long distance relationships ?


I am not in the mood for sex since my ...

Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years now. We are both 21 years old. I had my daughter almost 3 and 1/2 years ago. Our sex life was great before that, then my boyfriend had sex with another girl behind my back over several months. I know he is truly sorry for what he has done. It is painful for me to have intercourse and it seems like I am never in the mood. The affair took place 3 years ago. we are finding it very hard to get back on track with this problem. I never feel in the mood for sex and seem to carry on without it fine. However I know at 21 I should not feel this way. I just wondered if you had any advice for me. Many thanks.


How do you ask a friend to have sex with ...

I am a 19 yr old male and have never had sex before although I have had a few girlfriends in the past. Right now I don't know what is happening to me... I really want to have sex and I don't care if it's with a girl that I'm dating or anyone else. The first person that comes to my mind is a friend of mine who may still have feelings for me. She's still a virgin and of my age and talks to me about how she gets turned on easily by guys, etc. and I know that she wants to have sex as well but I just don't know if she still has feelings for me. Either way it could backfire so I just wanted to know if you could help me figure out how I can ask her to have sex. Thanks a lot.



I think there is something wrong with my libido

I have been with my boyfriend for a few months now, and I do everything but sex with him, like I hardly ever feel horny and I don't know why. I really want to have sex with him and have done it before with him. I just want to know why I won't do it every night, and I never do anything to him, he always gives me all the pleasure and I wantto give him pleasure but I don't know what's up, so please help me!!


Why am I not into having sex with my boyfriend ...

I am 18 years old and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I do love him and find him good looking as well. I sometimes question myself whether I am attracted to him, but this might only be my paranoia. I started liking him back when we met mostly because of his personality rather than looks. I have liked several guys while I was younger but my present boyfriend is the first one I have had an intimate relationship with. Recently intercourse had been painful and I do not always feel like doing it. When he wants it I have a hard time getting aroused. I also noticed myself looking at girls often, but I always thought it is because I am comparing myself to them, or if they are pretty I would look at them. I have been feeling depressed lately because of several reasons and also have had some fights with my boyfriend. Why do I find myself not into having sex, or thinking about him in a sexual way, and is my behavior towards girls normal ?




Is enjoying anal sex an indicator that my boyfriend is ...

I want to know if my boyfriend is bisexual… He keeps putting vibrators and other objects in his anus and he doesn't know why he does it. I am concerned he may be bisexual, and I just need to know if my intuition has led me in the right direction… Thanks a lot!


Should I have sex with my friend? He doesn’t want ...

I have a friend I've know for over 10 years and there's always been a strong attraction there and still is on both of our parts. Only he says he doesn't want a relationship but he wants to make love to me. I told him he doesn't love me to say – “make love”. He never denied it or agreed. Should I have sex with him?


Do I love her ? Is it just a phase ...

I've always been with men only. But until I had a 3some three years ago, I started to be more curious and I wanted to experience being with a woman. But I've never found the right person. Well, I was working with this female up until last year May and when she quit we became the best of friends. Then it wasn't until this year that she told me she was bisexual and that she had a huge crush on me. But she respected the fact that we are friends and she would never cross the line. Well, one time she invited me to a party with a few friends and for some reason that night I just wanted to kiss her, but I didn't have the nerves to do it in public. Long story short I was in a relationship and I asked my boyfriend could I try it with a woman. I ended up sleeping with her and we've been doing just that for the past 3 months. I find myself wondering what it would be like to be in a relationship with her. I find myself wanting to see her more. Is it a phase? Am I really in love? How do I know?



When my finger was in her vagina, it became wet. ...

When I was hanging out with my girlfriend we were makeing out. I asked her if I could finger her and she said yes so i unbuttoned her pants and started fingering her. I kept going and moved down farther and it was wet I'm just wondering but did she cum or pee or something.