Category: Questionning you gender identity



I’m so confused I don’t know what I want

I've liked girls for as long as I can remember, but I also like guys so I think I'm bisexual. I came out to my family and friends and there all ok with it. However I dress tomboyish and sometimes I feel I'm meant to be a guy, want to be one and feel what its like to have sex as a man. I even have dreams about it, but then sometimes I want to be the girl I was born. I'm so confused I don't know what I want or who I am, do you have any suggestion for me, I could really use it?


I’m confused about my gender identity. Help me!

I have had thoughts about transsexalism for some time. At first I thought it was a fetish, because I fantasised about being with T-Girls all the time. However, the last few years, I've been female in all my dreams, I've been sexually active, yet have never "cum" with a girl, I have fantasies about having sex with guys as a girl.... I've been to psychiatrists and they say I'm just confused, that it's just a phase... but I'm not sure... I've made my appearance much more Feminine, and cross-dress whenever I can, but am too scared to go out in public... What should I do? Should I try another shrink? Should I tell my parents? I'm so confused. – TF



I don’t quite fit in. Can you help me!

I've known that I've been different since I was a kid, but now I can't figure out what I am. I don't fit into lesbian or any other tables. In my recent browsing of the internet, I found the term 'pansexual.' This, so far, is the closest thing I can find to describe my sexual orientation. This doesn't quite fit, either, for I find myself attracted to mostly females and everything else in between, more than males. I don't feel like I should be a female, but being male isn't right for me either. Any ideas? - Alanna