Category: Love and interpersonnal relationships



I think I am romantically attracted to my best friend ...

Growing up, I was always fascinated with sex. I wanted to be the girl that all the guys liked. I had my first kiss with a boy when I was 7 and always wanted a boyfriend. In high school and college I never dated anyone. I was interested in guys but never super interested. The last time I really liked a boy was when I was a freshman in high school. We were best friends and I was obsessed with him. I know that I am sexually attracted to guys. When I watch pornography, I either watch male masturbation videos or I wish that I was the woman in the scene. In fact, women moaning turns me off sometimes. However, I I feel as if I had crushes on girls in the past. It usually is people I'm good friends with and doesn't come out of nowhere. My current best friend, we are super close. We will tell each other everything and talk all the time. We cuddle and people have thought we were dating. I think about her all the time and want to spend all of my time with her. However, there is also intense anxiety in the friendship. I feel as if I am dependent on her emotionally and based on friendship trauma from elementary, I fear she will end the friendship out of nowhere. I also am super jealous of her. She pulls more guys than I do and I am jealous of her that it is so easy for her to fall for men. I get anxious when she is dating someone. One, I am jealous that she is dating somebody and has had the ability to fall for a man. 2, I am worried that I will be replaced. I think I am romantically attracted to her and I am sensually as well. I want to give her hugs and cuddle with her but I am not turned on by the idea of having sex with a woman. I am turned on by the idea of sex with a man though. I haven't had sex ever but I get turned on from making out with guys at bars. My anxiety gets really bad because I want to get married to a man but I worry that I am really a lesbian and that I'm in love with my best friend and that it will never happen for me. Please help.


I have sexual fantasies about almost every woman I meet. ...

Hi Iam 20 years old and i have sexually fantastis about almost everwoman i meet , expect for my family...i came to a new environment and it's difficulty to extinguish who is being friendly and who wants itimacy...is for someone to ask you do in bed if they are not interested in having it with you?



I’m attracted to girls but I don’t know wether I’m ...

I am 16 and I have had mistook "admiration" as "crush" a lot of times when I was small... And now knows that the "boy" crushes(3 to be exact) I had was just mere admiration to be like them....(I want to be more masculine) and I recently realised that I am attracted to girls... and if I were to date someone(or marry someone in the far future) then that 'someone' would be a girl... I don't label myself as lesbian because I am still confused as I have never got a crush and neither do I understand what actually is a crush..(and I truly don't understand the "butterfly in stomach" feeling everyone talks about) and also nowadays I question myself like "what if I am lying to myself about being lesbian" "am I being like this just to be different from others?" and such questions are making me more and more confused. Please help! I can't understand whether I'm lesbian or not!!


I’m a straight guy in love with my lesbian best ...

I’m a straight guy in love with my lesbian best friend I already told her about this and later on I asked if she ever did want to start a relationship with a guy would she give me a chance and she said yes without hesitation we are still close friends but I can’t stop thinking about her she all I can think about what do I do Vampire





Why does my college professor stare at me?

Why does my college professor stare at me? I'm a 22 year old med student and he's my 35 year old anatomy professor. Sometimes he's just sitting at his desk not even talking, while we're doing our work, and whenever I look at him he'll already be looking at me. He even stares at me until I look away. Now, I do find him attractive and I might've stared at him a couple of times because of that, but it was totally unconscious. What does this mean? I don't know if he's flirting with me or if he's just staring at me out of curiosity because he caught me staring at him too. I'm also a very shy girl so it was never my intention to let him know that I'm attracted to him. Now I'm kind of embarrassed.