Category: Gender identity


I’m questionning my gender identity, but it’s hard to explain, ...

Good afternoon, English is my second language, I'm sorry in advance if mistakes are made or if its a bit muddled. I'm questoning my gender identity. I am assigned female at birth and my behaviour and clothing is party female and male. I sometimes feel like a female, other times I think I feel like a non binary person (this is new to me, I didnt realise I could be non binary). The male part of me is mostly shown by my clothing, talking and behaving. I feel less strong like a male than I do like a female/non binary person. Maybe I just have male traits and society makes me feel like a woman cant have these traits. My clothing is mostly female since I am a bit uncomfortable with mens clothing in public, my social anxiety makes it worse. The past year I've been wearing more wide and larger fitting clothes because they are very comfortable and I feel good in them. I dont like societies view on how men and women should behave according to their gender assigned at birth. Im planning to let these 'rules' rest beside me and just be who I want to be, wether that is with female or male traits. I am Julia. Now on to the body experience. I dislike my female body very much. I dont like the shapes, they make me feel nauseous and sad. I am planning to do surgery to remove my breasts. I am not comfortable with my genitals either but I'd rather have female than male genitals. I feel a bit weird about it because its hard to explain, even to myself. I cant put my finger on what I feel exactly. I was wondering if someone on this site has an idea of what I might be experiencing. Thank you for reading and I hope you have a lovely day and dont forget to be your most authentic, beautiful self. :-) Julia



I’m 12 years old and I currently identify as genderfluid ...

Hi I am 12 years old Currently identify as Genderfluid But I am starting to question myself about whether I am or not but I know one thing for SURE I am not cis. I present Female but Mostly feel male/agender but i have these days where I either feel Nonbinary or like a Demigirl it is never fully female. so I need help because i have no idea what gender I am. I also have extreme anxiety so I haven't came out yet because I feel like my mom will hate me(She is very supportive of lgbtq so i know it is safe) i am just scared so if you have any suggestions i would like them. - Alex?( Dunno what my name is anymore)




I think I’m trans masc and I’m trying really hard ...

Hello! So I've been really trying to figure out myself and stuff in the last couple of pretty much years at this point haha... And I think I'm trans masc... And I'm trying really hard to figure out if it's true, and what I wanna do from there, I'm just out to my little sister (she's so fucking supportive i love her so much TvT) and a few friends.... and i need advice, i need to know more, about how to get access to testosterone, how break it down to my parents, how to do anything aaaaaaah So any help would be absolutely lovely and so very much appreciated, as im currently very confused and overwhelmed by everything thats going on... Thank you! Hope you folks all have a nice day or night!




I’m 99% sure I’m ftm, but at the same time, ...

I’m 99% sure I’m ftm, but at the same time, sometimes I don’t mind being feminine, but I hate being seen as feminine other times, I know I don’t have to give myself a label, but I feel like a label would make me feel better I guess? I also think I’m too young to be choosing stuff but I feel like a boy, so I really don’t know what to do





I’m non-binary and I want to know my sexual orientation…

Hi. I would like to know about my sexuality. When I was younger, and people thought I was a girl, I had crushes on only boys. Now, looking back, I'm not sure if the crushes were real, or if soceity - (did I spell that right?) and my family- pressured me into wanting to fake crushes so I could fit in with my female cousins and classmates. looking back, there were enormous signs of my omnigender identity lying there, just being ignored. the way I wanted to hang out with my boy cousins more than my female ones, the times I played wearing both a princess dress and a fake mustache, and the way I was so upset the night my mom was telling my sister about gender indentities, and when I told my mom I was non-binary after hearing that term, she told me I wasn't, which might have been one of the worst nights of my life. but enough about my gender. I'm positive of it now and I want to know my orientation. Later, just after I came out, I started having crushes on girls. I was madly in love with my best friend for awhile, but now I'm shipping her with my other friend, so I'm really over her. By then, (and still now) I find straight white cis boys repulsive (and other boys pretty bad as well.) which was the exact type of guy I used to crush on (or maybe not?) but here's the weirdest part. I was so crazy about this kid (who told everyone he was non-binary at the time) that I sent him a message, telling him I liked him, then as soon as he said he was actually a boy, I lost complete intrest in him. crazy, I know. Do they have a sexuality fluid orientation? Did I make up all my crushes exept the last one, to be accepted? these questions flood my mind. please help. Minijkrowling