Tag: woman


My husband has had same sex intercourse and cross-dresses- should ...

Hi, I have been married for 4 years. Early in my marriage my husband shared with me that he had had same sex intercourse. I didn't know what to do. In my culture that is called"gay" no matter if later on you are married. I seeked help and they recommended a divorce. I love him so much that I didn't and to make it better he told me it was just a test to see what would I do. Yesterday he told me again that it was true. He did have same sex intercouse more than once and he liked it. He also likes to put things in his rectum when he masturbates. Also, he says that he doesn't like guys because they are gross and that is wrong. However, he wants me to wear a strap-on to see if I like it. He also wants to dress like a girl, wears my underwear and shaves like a girl. I think this is too much but I love him. I want to be with him. I don't know if wanting to be with him is wrong. What should I do? I am really confused.


I am interested in a woman who is already involved ...

I am a 50 yr old lesbian. I am a Christian church leader. I met a young woman at church who is also a lesbian. She is 26 years old. She is in a long-distance relationship with her partner of several years. She lives here and intends to stay here. Her partner keeps promising to move here too but is running a business in another country and makes excuses about coming here. Although I know she is in an long-distance relationship, we spend a lot of time together recently. She is beautiful, brilliant, funny, everything I would want in a partner but she is taken. She knows I really like her and initially she said that the Bible says we should not take our friendship any further (and I agreed) but she is always texting me, calls me, came to my home to watch movies with me, went on a "date" with me to see a movie, runs errands for me, always blushes when I tease her, has agreed to go away with me to the mountains for a weekend as "friends". I know I should stop, I know better but I love being with her and she obviously likes me.


I like to cross-dress as a female, does this make ...

Much like a question I saw on your site, I like to crossdress in private & wish I was female. I love looking at the female body but wish I was one. When I crossdress I pretend I'm with a man and I masturbate. When I have sex with a woman I fantasize about being her or that I'm a woman & she's a man. I've been with lots of women but feel I'm more inclined to want to be a woman. I'm not sure if I'm gay because men do nothing for me unless I'm dressed & fantasizing about being a woman. But I know most women will not accept me as I am so should I date men? Am I a homosexual? I'm very confused right now. I have a daughter and a very religious family so I can't be a full time crossdresser.



I think my fiance is bisexual because he has no ...

My fiance and I are about to have our first child, and it seems lately he's had no sexual desire for me. Before I became pregnant we had a lot of sex, and he enjoyed being anally stimulated by me. My question is: why is it that before I didn't really feel my man was bisexual but now I'm having doubts. The only thing that would make me wonder is the fact that he took nude pictures when he was younger for an openly gay man. He also allowed this man to take him to FL to strip for extra cash on a few occasions. He vehemently denies any "homo" behavior with ANY man and becomes very angry if I question him. Is it possible that he found out on his own that he liked anal sex or is it more likely that this happened after an experience with a man he then knew? I don't know what it is but my intuition tells me he's keeping something from me. I just don't know if it's the fact that he's bisexual or even gay and just scared to "come out". I looked at the previously asked questions and didn't find anything similar to my situation. Please help!



Is it normal to be attracted to older women?

I have been single all my life and I have only had sex with two women. My first was with an older woman; she was 60 and I was 28. That was 22 years ago. My second was with a woman my age. That was 13 years ago. I felt relaxed and content with the older woman. Do I have a problem because I prefer older women? I do fantasize about going to bed with older women and performing 69s and being breastfed.



Am I bisexual or lesbian?

I'm Sarah, I'm 14 And I Thought I was ' Bisexual '. I Have A Girlfriend Named Sophie Who I'm Very Much In Love With. But Whenever Someone Asks Me What My Sexual Orientation Is I Say « Bi ». But I'm Really Confused About Whether I'm Bi Or Lesbian Because I haven't Had Sexual Thoughts About Men In Almost A Year. Is This Just Because I'm In A Relationship With A Girl And That's Always On My Mind? Or am I just Lesbian and not bisexual? - Please Help, Sarah


I am attracted to the same sex, but live in ...

Since childhood I have been attracted to the same sex. I was raised in a very conservative religious environment, and such things are not even mentioned in my family. I accepted that I was odd or different and in my 20's married. I have now been married 20 years and can't seem to fight any longer my urges for another man. I don't want to lose my wife and everything and every friend I have, and I would if this attraction were in the open. What should I do?