Tag: wife



I am attracted to the same sex, but live in ...

Since childhood I have been attracted to the same sex. I was raised in a very conservative religious environment, and such things are not even mentioned in my family. I accepted that I was odd or different and in my 20's married. I have now been married 20 years and can't seem to fight any longer my urges for another man. I don't want to lose my wife and everything and every friend I have, and I would if this attraction were in the open. What should I do?


I am married, but attracted to my massage therapist… what ...

I have been married for over 7 years but been with my wife for 12 years total. About 2 months ago I met my massage therapist who is only 24 years old. She is currently involved with someone but nothing seems to matter because I am totally smitten by her. I have honestly never felt this way about anyone before, not even my wife who I love dearly. I don't know what to do and I can't stop thinking about her. She on the other hand probably has no clue about the way I feel, even though I drop small hints from time to time. What can I do to pursue this further?



My wife keeps saying she is happy with my cross-dressing ...

Hello I'm in the UK. I hope you can give me some advice. From my earliest years I have dressed in female clothes, this has brought me comfort, arousal, happiness and comfort. I have been married for 16 years and my wife and I love each other very much. She tells me that she doesn't mind my "hobby" but I always feel awkward when dressed with her. I seem to go through a yearly cycle of repressing everything and then getting to a point where I can't restrain my inclination to wear my clothes/make-up etc. My wife keeps saying she is happy with my dressing but I am sure she is not. I don't want to hurt her or do anything which will destroy our marriage but I feel as though I am living with a bursting dam behind me. I can't ask you whether I am transsexual or a transvestite but if you could give me some advice I'd be very grateful. Many thanks!