Tag: Trans


I think I’m having a gender crisis…

So i think im having a gender crisis i think. So I don't identify with the gender I have been assigned at birth (female). So let me try explain, I identify more with males but not entirely, though. But I don't feel comfortable with femme or feminine pronouns, words, or complements, in general, either. So i stick with male or non-binary names or pronouns. But i don't want to stop being feminine, so i brought it down to my own phrase, "I want to feel pretty like a man but handsome/dashing/magnificent like a woman but not women" I realize that this phrase is kinda confusing for some ppl, so i hope you understand. But like I don't mind but do mind my chest but my entire body; if I could character customize it I would. I feel like this doesn't make any sense, but i tried my best to explain. Sorry if it's confusing my brain process can over or under-explain things.


I’m questionning my gender identity, but it’s hard to explain, ...

Good afternoon, English is my second language, I'm sorry in advance if mistakes are made or if its a bit muddled. I'm questoning my gender identity. I am assigned female at birth and my behaviour and clothing is party female and male. I sometimes feel like a female, other times I think I feel like a non binary person (this is new to me, I didnt realise I could be non binary). The male part of me is mostly shown by my clothing, talking and behaving. I feel less strong like a male than I do like a female/non binary person. Maybe I just have male traits and society makes me feel like a woman cant have these traits. My clothing is mostly female since I am a bit uncomfortable with mens clothing in public, my social anxiety makes it worse. The past year I've been wearing more wide and larger fitting clothes because they are very comfortable and I feel good in them. I dont like societies view on how men and women should behave according to their gender assigned at birth. Im planning to let these 'rules' rest beside me and just be who I want to be, wether that is with female or male traits. I am Julia. Now on to the body experience. I dislike my female body very much. I dont like the shapes, they make me feel nauseous and sad. I am planning to do surgery to remove my breasts. I am not comfortable with my genitals either but I'd rather have female than male genitals. I feel a bit weird about it because its hard to explain, even to myself. I cant put my finger on what I feel exactly. I was wondering if someone on this site has an idea of what I might be experiencing. Thank you for reading and I hope you have a lovely day and dont forget to be your most authentic, beautiful self. :-) Julia


I’m 12 years old and I currently identify as genderfluid ...

Hi I am 12 years old Currently identify as Genderfluid But I am starting to question myself about whether I am or not but I know one thing for SURE I am not cis. I present Female but Mostly feel male/agender but i have these days where I either feel Nonbinary or like a Demigirl it is never fully female. so I need help because i have no idea what gender I am. I also have extreme anxiety so I haven't came out yet because I feel like my mom will hate me(She is very supportive of lgbtq so i know it is safe) i am just scared so if you have any suggestions i would like them. - Alex?( Dunno what my name is anymore)



I think I’m trans masc and I’m trying really hard ...

Hello! So I've been really trying to figure out myself and stuff in the last couple of pretty much years at this point haha... And I think I'm trans masc... And I'm trying really hard to figure out if it's true, and what I wanna do from there, I'm just out to my little sister (she's so fucking supportive i love her so much TvT) and a few friends.... and i need advice, i need to know more, about how to get access to testosterone, how break it down to my parents, how to do anything aaaaaaah So any help would be absolutely lovely and so very much appreciated, as im currently very confused and overwhelmed by everything thats going on... Thank you! Hope you folks all have a nice day or night!



I’m 99% sure I’m ftm, but at the same time, ...

I’m 99% sure I’m ftm, but at the same time, sometimes I don’t mind being feminine, but I hate being seen as feminine other times, I know I don’t have to give myself a label, but I feel like a label would make me feel better I guess? I also think I’m too young to be choosing stuff but I feel like a boy, so I really don’t know what to do





I’ve been struggling with my gender identity… Is the want ...

I've been struggling with my gender identity for the past couple of months, though I feel like this has been an ongoing thing I never noticed until now. Every spare moment I have I'm questioning who I am, who I want to be, and who I want to be perceived as. The main issue is that I don't feel comfortable being seen as a girl anymore. I've tried using some different pronouns to see how I felt, and it was nice for a bit, but I realized there was still something missing. I think I'm still in a lot of denial over how what's missing is the fact that I want to be perceived as a boy, but I feel like I can't have that, because physically, it's logical that I'm not one. Plus, I'm scared of even considering transitioning, it feels like a huge step that I don't know if I'll ever be ready for. While most of the time I'm yearning to be a guy, there are a few times where I feel okay as a girl. It's just so confusing, and I don't want to stick with something and then regret it later. I also feel like, is the want to be a man a fetishization thing? Because when I see healthy and happy male relationships in books or shows, I feel a sense of happiness from it and can relate to it to an extent. Does that mean these feelings of dysphoria are based on that? Because while it's one thing to put yourself in another character's shoes, I feel like there's a bit more to these feelings than that. Any insight would be really appreciated! Bao



I’m looking for youth trans resources in Montreal.

I’m a gender and sexualities educator for youth, and I was recently asked a couple of questions about Montreal resources that stumped me. One participant asked if I knew of any trans-friendly family doctors located in the West Island. Do you know of any resource lists of health professionals that I can direct them towards? Another question was regarding youth-friendly sexual assault support group resources (and ideally LGBTQ2+ friendly as well!) – I initially referred them to SACOMSS but I’m wondering if there’s another one that might be specifically targeted towards youth?