Tag: therapist



I realized I feel like a man…

Hi, Since 3 or 4 years, I realized that I feel like a man, although I'm a girl, physically. When I was young, I was feeling like If I was born in the wrong body. That made me feel very uncomfortable in public. Today, I feel angry when people call me by my "true" name or "Miss", or everything that reminds me my real gender. To ease the situation, I wear daily men clothes and my close friends call me by a male name. Moreover, I realized that I'm attracted by men. As a result, I needed to share my problem with my parents fastly, because I became depressive and confused. However, they didint believe me, and they said that I was probably fool. They hope that I'll be cared, some day, but I'm enough mature to know that the situation wont change. Later,I would like to become a realy man, but I'm afraid to loose my parent's love. I need your help, to know how to make my parents understand my sorrow and my trouble. How should I expalin them the transsexuality(and also my "homosexuality") issue?


I am married, but attracted to my massage therapist… what ...

I have been married for over 7 years but been with my wife for 12 years total. About 2 months ago I met my massage therapist who is only 24 years old. She is currently involved with someone but nothing seems to matter because I am totally smitten by her. I have honestly never felt this way about anyone before, not even my wife who I love dearly. I don't know what to do and I can't stop thinking about her. She on the other hand probably has no clue about the way I feel, even though I drop small hints from time to time. What can I do to pursue this further?



Can I change the fact that I am feeling more ...

I think I am transgendered but, don't want to believe my marriage and life has been a lie. My question is this...How can you change what you feel on the inside? How can you avoid what feels like an inevitable sex change? I love my wife and family very much but, I have the strongest feminine desires I have ever had. I feel like I am not supposed to be a man. I feel more feminine than masculine. How can you change that? I am on the verge of losing my wife of almost 8 years because I don't know how to deal with these feelings. I try to run from it but, somehow it always catches up with me. I want to know that I can beat this. I have been told that whether I want or not I will eventually become female.


I’m confused about my gender identity. Help me!

I have had thoughts about transsexalism for some time. At first I thought it was a fetish, because I fantasised about being with T-Girls all the time. However, the last few years, I've been female in all my dreams, I've been sexually active, yet have never "cum" with a girl, I have fantasies about having sex with guys as a girl.... I've been to psychiatrists and they say I'm just confused, that it's just a phase... but I'm not sure... I've made my appearance much more Feminine, and cross-dress whenever I can, but am too scared to go out in public... What should I do? Should I try another shrink? Should I tell my parents? I'm so confused. – TF