Tag: talk


I’m a girl. So is she. How can i be ...

I really like this girl from school but i hardly know her! I have a friend that knows her though, and so i ask about her often. But she likes a guy and so I'm sitting here watching and waiting. I know that it would be stupid to walk up and start talking to her when I know that we're both girls. I tried talking to a few friends about it, but most of them hate her. And so what if she's a "poser"...(in their opinion) I've talked to her a few times and i really like her. Sometimes i catch her staring at me, and other times she catches me staring at her. We both look away quickly, but i still want to know if she likes me! How can i tell...and what if she already knows if i like her?


Does my friend have feelings for me?

I have a friend who is 24 and I am 34. We talk about everything and we argue every week because no one has really stated how they feel about each other. He has asked if he moved in with me, would I put him out and tells me he loves me all the time. Our feelings are stronger than those purely based on friendship and yet he still has baggage and feelings for one of his exes. He doesn't like me to be involved in this situation. I have been there for him on his good days and his bad days, yet we haven't moved any further; so I broke it off with him. However, he won't leave and keeps coming back. We never kissed or had sex but he talks more of the future than before. What is going on now, am I being impatient or is this just a game?


I work with a girl that I like. What should ...

I work with this girl, whose name I can't say. Over the couple of months that I have worked with her I have started to develop feelings for her. Sometimes we flirt and play around but I have not told her I like her. I would like to tell her but I just can't bring myself to actually make the words come out of my mouth and that is not the only problem - she has a boyfriend. Although I know that she knows I like her as more than a friend by the way I treat her and talk to her, I can never say it and find out whether she likes me too. What do I do?



I’m afraid to come out and be rejected. Help ...

Hi, I'm a freshman at university and recently I've begun to have feelings for other girls. I've known for a while now that I am not exclusively attracted to guys, however, now I feel like I'm only attracted to girls. This is a problem for two main reasons. One, I am not out and I risk loosing my family by coming out. Two, I don't know what the consequences of coming out will be. In addition, I recently met a girl who goes to the same university and I feel as though we have chemistry. Yet, I don't want to take the chance because I fear others will find out, and also, I fear being rejected. Is there any way for me to tell her how I feel, or are there any signs that I should look out for to see if she might be interested. – Lee