Tag: struggle


Can I change the fact that I am feeling more ...

I think I am transgendered but, don't want to believe my marriage and life has been a lie. My question is this...How can you change what you feel on the inside? How can you avoid what feels like an inevitable sex change? I love my wife and family very much but, I have the strongest feminine desires I have ever had. I feel like I am not supposed to be a man. I feel more feminine than masculine. How can you change that? I am on the verge of losing my wife of almost 8 years because I don't know how to deal with these feelings. I try to run from it but, somehow it always catches up with me. I want to know that I can beat this. I have been told that whether I want or not I will eventually become female.


How can I know my orientation for sure?

Hi, I'm in my twenties and I am not sure about my sexual orientation. I am physically and emotionally attracted to women but not sexually. I'd like to confirm my orientation, but how can I know for sure? Maybe meeting other people like me would help me, but I don't know where to go. Can you help me?