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Why do all religions condemn homosexuality?

Hello.... it is irfan here again.... well i read your answer...it was quite attractive and I liked reading about how every one has a right to live the way they want to live... From your answer, I am getting this idea that there is no religion in the world basically or we should not believe in any religion but as a Muslim that is not possible and it would be the most disgusting thing for me not to believe. If you have researched on different religions so you must have gotten the idea that nowadays everything is exactly as Islam predicted in its book the Koran: it means islam does exist..... that is for sure... I can't argue about this....but my problem can be solved by only your perspective/answer on this issue, i.e. that gay feelings are natural. If it's not natural then it could mean it is curable... if it would not be curable then it is not possible that islam predicted punishment.... it must have a solution on which we can act and can make our life comfortable. Just think about all religions being against gay feelings so how is it possible that being gay is natural?


I have a boyfriend but I am Muslim and cannot ...

My question is simple, but hard. As you can see I am from an Islamic country & so I can't have a boyfriend. But I still do and I love him. Me & my BF met online and have been together for a year. But because I am muslim I am not allowed to go out without my family, & on top of that, I don't have a mobile phone. So I've never seen my BF for the past year, & I only talked to him maybe 10 times from my friend's mobile. I can't go out with my friends either so there's no chance of seeing him. I feel like he's sick of me. What should I do?


I want to see my friend more frequently, but he ...

Hi, I need help: I want to meet up with my best friend more frequently, but he lives a 3 hour train journey away from me. He has a busy life, he works 5 days a week and works on the weekends but he is able to take days off. I only do a 3 day a week college course during the week so I have a lot of spare time and whenever I ask if we can meet up sometime he'll put it off and say he's always busy. We talk every day texting and instant messaging each other but I just want to spend more time with him. Does he not want to pursue this friendship? He means the world to me and he sometimes says that to me as well but I wonder if you have any wise words that would help me. I am desperate to meet up with him more frequently. I know he is not very comfortable travelling on his own, but even when I offer to go and see him, he won't let me. What should I do?



I had dreams involving my best friend. Does this mean ...

I met my best friend two years ago... it is as if we are sisters separated at birth. She has been there for me this past summer and really helped me when my parents kicked me out of the house for not paying their bills. Her family took me in and really made me feel like I belonged. I have been having these dreams about the two of us having a sexual encounter and it scares me because I am straight and I have never even thought about something like this before. Now when we are together I can't help but think of these dreams... could I be gay and not know it? We have always been very physical with each other... hugging and back rubs etc., nothing sexual. But now I feel like I am reading into these things too much? I am afraid to tell her about this because I don't want to lose her... What should I do?


I am bi-curious but I don’t know how to approach ...

I am bi-curious. I have made out with a few dudes, but I want to explore beyond that boundary. My bestfriend is straight, and I don't know what his take on it would be if I came out of the closet. How should I tell him? Also, I'm not very good at the whole male approach, with women I can walk up to them and be ok, but with men I beat around the bush, and most of the time I get scared, because I don't want to be embarrassed if they're not into me. Help!




Am I bisexual?

I think I might be bisexual; I have had fantasies about both men and women, but never really been in a relationship before so I have nothing to compare. I have a friend who is bi and I become uncomfortable if her & her boyfriend start making out, and I'm also uncomfortable changing in front of other women. My mother is Catholic and my family is very clear about their stand on the gay community; and I know that's clouding my judgment. I've never really felt a strong attraction to either sex (at least not that I'm aware of; I lie to myself a lot -is this normal?), but if my dad & brother are watching porn (straight & lesbian) in the room when I'm working on the computer I'll criticize it and pretend to be disgusted but watch it from the corner of my eye. For years I've been questioning my sexuality..... My friend is very open about what she thinks about women's looks and I get uncomfortable when she asks my opinion; I want to agree most of the time but am afraid to... Please help me sort this out.


I am attracted to the same sex, but live in ...

Since childhood I have been attracted to the same sex. I was raised in a very conservative religious environment, and such things are not even mentioned in my family. I accepted that I was odd or different and in my 20's married. I have now been married 20 years and can't seem to fight any longer my urges for another man. I don't want to lose my wife and everything and every friend I have, and I would if this attraction were in the open. What should I do?


I think my teacher is attracted to me.

I think my teacher is attracted to me. I am just confused with how he is acting around me; he is the type of teacher everybody loves, makes fun of everybody and is known for being a hardass towards his students (regardless of their gender), but once I got to know him I realized that there was something very different about the way he acted towards me. He stares at me constantly when I'm in his class; he grants me different privileges over other students; he asks me about my love life; and I know he is trying hard not to cross any lines, and I just really need to know how to act around him. Help?



Am I pregnant, even though I had my period last ...

Hi...I really need your help. I took an emergency contraceptive within 48hrs of having sex with my boyfriend a month ago. We have not slept together since. I had my period after 6 days of taking it. The flow was normal, and I had my habitual cramps as well. However my next period is a few days late now. I keep getting the feeling I will get my period. I have mild cramps but no period yet. Could it be because of the hormones in the pill that my period is late now or could I be pregnant? I did have my period after the last time I took the emergency contraceptive so I am confused and scared. Is it possible to be pregnant if you have had your period? Please help me…